So, 4 years later after dating this girl, buying more than 50% of a home property and having engagement with her, my trust issue of her and her boss was never settled despite me giving the r/ship everything i had, mentally, spiritually and financially. And Now its over. She couldnt addres or be the person i once knew and i left everything. I couldnt have the confidence to continue marriage with someone who cant do anything for my mental health and insecurity. My question is, i sacrificed for her and her families this 4yrs and this breakup is actually hurting my heart in a disappointment and is there a way i can heal quick so i can work and live my life properly. I have peoples dependent on me in day to day life to function. Pls help me with any tips.
I am about to marry this girl whom i had a r/ship with for over 2 year. But i have always felt on the fence about her & that is cause she keeps her old "guy" friend and she is too friendly on her workplace wiz guys, we had arguments & fights about it but no matter how much she minimized the contact, i feel still uncomfortable about it. And she have a stubborn attitude top of that. I try not to take freedom from her and seem as controlling person but i have boundaries and insecurities, i love & care about her and i wanted to marry her for her good sides but this sides are hunting me and making me double check my decision on the marriage cause i feel like am marrying her to benefit her while i cant trust her cause she becomes defensive whenever i bring it up. What will u do in my place