I am about to marry this girl whom i had a r/ship with for over 2 year. But i have always felt on the fence about her & that is cause she keeps her old "guy" friend and she is too friendly on her workplace wiz guys, we had arguments & fights about it but no matter how much she minimized the contact, i feel still uncomfortable about it. And she have a stubborn attitude top of that. I try not to take freedom from her and seem as controlling person but i have boundaries and insecurities, i love & care about her and i wanted to marry her for her good sides but this sides are hunting me and making me double check my decision on the marriage cause i feel like am marrying her to benefit her while i cant trust her cause she becomes defensive whenever i bring it up. What will u do in my place