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I have always believed I'm not a materialistic girl. I believe in personality. And never on appearance. I have exes to show for it 😁. My friends have mocked me alot because of it. Anyway I have a friend, I love his personality and everything about him. But he didn't go all the way with his education. Plus he doesn't earn much. I have more of those things than him. And I'm starting to develop feelings for him but I'm afraid if things workout he might get intimidated and backoff. Am I being paranoid here?

Apr 18, 2020

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Sickk

428

Everyone's diffrent...my girl has a great job, she earns a lot of money and I'm still in school. She does pay the bill most of the time if not all the time and I'm ok with that. I don't get intimidated cuz ik were at diffrent levels in our lives and one day I'll take care of her like she took care of me.

Apr 18, 2020

TanGibbon59

222

what you have to take into considerstion is does he have a potential to grow? what are his long term goals and all cause at the end of the day if he grows to be dependent on you is not okay. im saying this out of experience

Apr 18, 2020

femanon

896

Yeah some guys are very insecure when their girl is higher than them but not all. Most importantly tho you should never let him hold you back from the things you want to do or achieve.

Apr 18, 2020

LuckyPuma10

Well I say if he loves you too, he should earn money even if it's small works atleast he should try cause this is not being materialistic I say because to live and to fulfill our needs we need money which is obvious.so atleast he should show some eagerness to work cuz if this is gonna go all the way ahun jmero he should work up for it cuz he is gonna make family there are lot responsibilities there.so in conclusion education money menamn enkuan baynorew at least he should try to work mangnawm nger he can.if you dont see that in him yehen I say its dangerous one and you need to think abt it bednb.

Apr 18, 2020

SavageHare40

373

Know his perception regarding to this kind of. Does he feel insecurity so far or any sign? If he so he might hold your back nd be a difficulty for ur growth. Like many husband #stayhome I have enough money menamen endimeltu then he Wil control everything.

Apr 18, 2020

BlushKangaroo73

Ahhh bless your heart girl. Run while you still can. Men don’t like women that do better than them. Specially when it comes to financial situation. They’ll always be insecure with you and it’s fucking irritating. They’ll keep bringing it up and it’s really annoying. Trust me I speak from experience

Apr 18, 2020

AzurePenguin52

Oh. So, everyone else except you don’t want to date ugly men. I guess it’s over for ugly men then. Another question- would you marry an ugly dude that your mother, father, sister and brother don’t like?

Apr 18, 2020

PeriwinklePython54

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I think u doesn't know him well if ur nat materialistic girl u shouldn't think about his money or...... If u love his personality u can change everything money can't buy personality if u think he is nice for you talk to him u can change what ever you want Does he think about ur money or education ?

Apr 18, 2020

Anonymous

Not everyone is an open book. It is hard to know everything. Plus most men are that way with me. I won't ask him if he is intimidated or not.

Apr 18, 2020

AzurePenguin52

Why did your friends mock you?

Apr 18, 2020

Anonymous

My exes weren't good looking.

Apr 18, 2020

PeriwinklePanther70

don't do it

Sep 03, 2020

SternCobra70

For real if u like him u should have to develop feelings for him if u know him well if he treat you good be with him u can change anything🙏

Apr 22, 2020

bad_motherfucker

586.5

No, you're right. Imagine paying the bills like always, it's accepted male role so most probably gonna make him think he's inferior and be a source of persistent problem.

Apr 18, 2020

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