By realizing that looks aren't the only important thing in life infact its something so temporary. Work on your inner self ...make it beautiful, cultivate your mind, enrich your soul, practice self care, read books, find your purpose in life, dont give a shit about people's opinion cause people whether you are beautiful or not are still gonna be judgmental. And you set your own beauty scale. Create your own standards, try to dress up, look after your hygiene, find what compliments your body, your face. Try to look beautiful in your own comfort zone for YOURSELF. Find your personal style and be confident about it. We usually think looks are attractive but confidence and overall sense of belongingness in this world is so magnetic. I hope you will find your happiness. If you wanna talk in private holla at me