Ok so my friend just told me that she's been engaged at the age of 15. Not like she fell in love but the fam decided for her ena Im in shock. I dont know what to say to her to be comforting so please help
Apr 01, 2020Ru serious
Apr 01, 2020How old is she now?
Apr 02, 202019
Apr 02, 2020So this is what's gonna happen because I've actually seen a few of these. She finishes high school goes to some college while learning she gets married to the guy that her father wants and then after the wedding she quits school or goes to another school to learn something easier and she gets pregnant after that gives birth after 9 pr 10 months becomes a mother while this is happening she finds out her husband kinda owns her so she'll stop school altogether and becomes a full time wife keza pops a few other children and ya that's pretty much it if she's lucky!!!🤔 if she isn't she'll find out she's trapped , she'll hate her marriage and life which she can't do anything about, she'll be abused , she'll be made into a slave , she'll suffer day after day ............you get the picture. These are not so bad endewim compared to what people go through. Not saying these things don't happen when a person gets into marriage willingly but when it was unwanted from the beginning you can imagine. So buddy if you don't know what to tell her you're not really her friend . If she doesn't want to be married she should fight it with all she has, I know it's not always easy might even cost her but she's gonna have to fight for herself . She shoud convince her mother or anyone who can help her ....she should fight to live the way she wants because marriage is simple and yet under the name of marriage there could be a million possibilities waiting for her.
Apr 03, 2020there no way she should agree to such thing ahhha she isn't eko some good for sale deee..... if they force her to do so go for legal counseling mnamn
Apr 01, 2020