You seem desperate and that's what's lagging your progress. Sure everyone here is telling you to be sth, whether it's kuru or tegebabi, but let me tell you sth, you'll just be acting, and at one point you won't be able to act, what then. You'll act till you get the girl interested, then once she is you will just go back to your desperate ways. So kill your desperation, focus on yourself and do something that really matters to you than creating an identity just to attract women. Women are attracted by men that have a purpose that's different than chasing them.