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I was going through old questions and I found this question about being casual with girls& not feel guilty about it. Some how it makes sense to me at least logically. I will share the question below. Comment what you think. Part - 1 "I am thinking of lately that it's not bad to trick a girl in to sex even though you don't want long term r/n (especially for nice guys) 1. Girls may date you but if you slip up in value or get bored she will loose interest and replace you& hurt you in the process.... so what's wrong if we have fun and let go when it's not fun& hurt them in the process(they move on fast relatively) 2. Girls use guys left & right (especially the ones in the friend zone) what's wrong if we do too" Part-2 in the comment.

Jun 20, 2021

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Nop

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It's wrong to hurt anyone not just because she is a girl,but as general.if ur interest hurts some one, don't do it.besides y would u trick a girl into bed..there r so many people who don't need to be tricked into it.y not keep it real and tell the truth? Be a man with values and morals? Another thing is,yes u have to wait till u feel ready for marriage.u don't need to get married because u aged or u had to for some reason..u don't have to get married at all if u don't want to.its ur choice buddy. Btw just because some girls heal faster doesn't mean u have to hurt them. And Jesus said if a person slap ur right cheek, give ur left.not hurt another person.so if some girls do that,it doesn't mean u have to

Jun 20, 2021

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First of all, you generalised, which isn't quite right. Second, the argument, "they do it, therefore I should do it as well" is not logical, in fact it is a fallacy. Third, Guys already dump a girl when her value slips, they use girls and want to have fun in their young age, which means it isn't a girls thing that is waiting for a response out of you, it's just a human thing. Disclaimer - Not every guy or girl are like this. Fourth, while your fourth point might have some truth in it, the way you want to go about it is wrong, I'm talking about the tricking part. What you should do is sought out the girls that want this and have fun with them. To me you're in the business of rationalising what you want to do, rather than having rational points. I understand the frustration, but tricking isn't the way to go. What I advise you to do is, just look out for the girls that just want to have fun, and get wjat you want from them.

Jun 20, 2021

Addis94

13OP

First of all this isn't my rationalization I found the question asked previously. And also what I understood and the guy corrected later in the comment is he ment "trick" in a sense that you might not be sure if you will be committed to the relationship but sleep with her anyways and let the chips fall where they may.

Jun 20, 2021

Man it can't be stated better than this and there is nothing wrong going after what you want one way or another.

Jun 20, 2021

Addis94

13OP

Part-2 "3. Girls have fun when they are young and want to settle with the nice guy when they age ....so what's wrong if have fun till we want to settle 4. Girls expect you to treat them nice, understand them, be confident, lead them, satisfy them in bed.... so how on earth will you be capable of that if you are not highly experienced I don't see why it's wrong if I look out for my interest too....Let me know what you think and pls don't go out of context."

Jun 20, 2021

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Who say all girls are the same

Jun 20, 2021

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