Kesr yalew yerase aydelem gn ende and diakon hulum ewnet bemehonachew lkelshalew anbbiachew Aw mnm chgr yelewm they can have gnwhen you go out don't make it too world ling that might affect his deaconry. If you want to meet him, Around church (not inside wana gbi) is preferable. And try to control your emotion and keep social distancing as much as u can,(don't make it too much gn endaysasat..lol). - Don't try to be another person, be yourself and meet him as he has only one chance in his life for marriage that he must careful of. - Meet him only on Middays. Because 1- Night & couple privacy is not good at the same time 2- If you get raped or something like that, You cannot mingle with deacons becoz they must marry a Virgin girl. - So, if you like him, ask him out in Christianised way. Btw, you must know that having relationship with deacon requires higher responsibility than ordinary person. They might be a future priest, even if not, they are a symbol of Ecclesia (church) that everyone's eye focuses are on. You shouldn't even take him as your "protector" like other girls do think. Do you know the laws which deacons follow. They can only marry with virgin girl since they are virgin until they get married.and other they want a girl who inspire them in their spirituality. Other just tell him. Any more advise if you want i am willing The responsibility is not much different from other people but mingling with deacon means sharing his deaconhood. So, ውሎሽ፣ አለባበስሽ፣ አነጋገርሽ ጥሩ መሆን አለበት። እንዲህ ስልሽ ከባድ ነገር ሳይሆን፥ "ዲያቆን" ሲባል ከሱ የሚጠበቅ ማንነት ይኖራል። አንቺም ነገ "የዲያቆን ሚስት😁" ስትባይ ምን መሆን እንደሚገባሽ ውስጥሽም ይነግርሻል። When I say "Protector.....", uk know what, most girls wants Protective Boyfriend that protect them in overall. Yeah, Deacons should be protective for their spouse too but there is a limit. Like, They don't fight whatsoever mnamn. mn malete endehone ygebashal engdi😅 በመጀመሪያ መፅሀፍ እንዲህ ይላል... 1ኛ ጢሞቴዎስ 3 ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ ⁸ እንዲሁም ዲያቆናት ጭምቶች፥ በሁለት ቃል የማይናገሩ፥ ለብዙ ወይን ጠጅ የማይጎመጁ፥ ⁹ ነውረኛ ረብ የማይወዱ፥ በንጹሕ ሕሊና የሃይማኖትን ምሥጢር የሚይዙ ሊሆኑ ይገባቸዋል። ¹⁰ እነዚህም ደግሞ አስቀድሞ ይፈተኑ፥ ከዚያም በኋላ ያለ ነቀፋ ቢሆኑ በዲቁና ሥራ ያገልግሉ። ¹¹ እንዲሁም ሴቶች ጭምቶች፥ የማያሙ፥ ልከኞች፥ በነገር ሁሉ የታመኑ ሊሆኑ ይገባቸዋል። ¹² ዲያቆናት ልጆቻቸውንና የራሳቸውን ቤቶች በመልካም እየገዙ እያንዳንዳቸው የአንዲት ሴት ባሎች ይሁኑ። ¹³ በዲቁና ሥራ በመልካም ያገለገሉ ለራሳቸው ትልቅ ማዕርግና በክርስቶስ ኢየሱስ ባለው እምነት ብዙ ድፍረት ያገኛሉ። ................. ቀላል ነገር አይደለም 11 ቁጥር ላይ ያለችዋን ሴት ልትሆኚ ትችያለሽ? ካልሆንሽ ራቂው ! እንደ ትልቅ ሰው አስበሽ ራቂው !በተለይ ሀላፊነት የማትወስጂ ከሆነ ..... መሰናከያው እንዳትሆኚ ተጠንቀቂ....የወደድሽው ሰው ከእኔ ጋር ተመሳሳይ ስለሆነ ነው የምመክርሽ .....መሰናከያው መሆን ምንም ችግርም የሌለው እንዳይመስልሽ እንደማንም አይደለም እሱ መላዕክት ሊነኩት የማይቻላቸውን የክርስቶስን ስጋና ደም የሚነካ ጭምር ነው....መፅሀፍ እንዲህም ይላል ስለማሰናከል ... “በእኔም ከሚያምኑት ከእነዚህ ከታናናሾቹ አንዱን የሚያሰናክል ሁሉ ትልቅ የወፍጮ ድንጋይ በአንገቱ ታስሮ ወደ ባሕር ቢጣል ይሻለው ነበር።” — ማርቆስ 9፥42 ....