You are already an amazing wife because uou believe you can learn and do better. Always believe in communications and reason. Dont make decisions or talk too much out of temporary emotions. Tramsparency is the secret ingredient to a lasting and beautiful marriage. Dont hesitate to ask questions if u have doubts. Think outloud. You have to make sure your husband know the storm growing inside you. You have to make sure you are not acting on a misundertanding.