I’m not in college yet but I graduated high school last summer. And I think it’s important to be aware that school and education in general is not about being “fun” (atleast it’s not only about that) I didn’t learn in Ethiopia but my personal high school experience wasn’t that fun...but I got my high school diploma and that was worth it. I think you have to change your point of view. I never went to school to make friends or have fun. You shouldn’t be thinking twice about joining college, because if you live in Ethiopia enkuan satemar temerek degree norosh/norok betam kebad nw. So choose a field you enjoy and study that. I think the big difference between high school and college is that atleast you learn something that you choose not all this subjects that you will not need in the future. So please learn, work on your future and the fun will follow !