You and your mother know in what situation you actually are in. So it is hard for us to give an advice or a judgement
But lemme say something.......
You know It is very hard to identify love and addiction even for the older ppl. It is good that you hear the advice of your mother and appreciated. But the reason of breakups shouldn't only be the enforcement of your mom. You should try to consider why she said it, it is because she cares about you and she doesn't want seeing you failing from your passion.
So, just try to see it in every direction. Are you sure that you know the meaning of love? Is really love means what we usually see or hear about?
So, if you sure about this, this is stage 1. Then understand what your mom wants to say. "She avoids him or she avoids early love?".
As my opinion, I don't support your relationship, don't support your breakup as well. Stay trusting each other until you know yourself and the day comes. But for now, BF GF things wouldn't be good. And also remember ur mom's advice.
May 11, 2021