A life where you have responsibilities, but not too much that you feel like you're suffocating, but enough to have a purpose in life, so that you won't be wandering aimlessly. When you have a person who gives you emotional support, meaning a person who understands, supports and keeps you in check when you're off the rails. Also, that person is capable and ready to share the love you have to offer, and give theirs to you as well. Also a life that allows you a window, to engage in the hobbies that matters to you the most.