Yo I'm sorry to insult you when you're obviously hurt but STOP BEING DUMB!!!!!!! Wake up!!! Women what is the matter with you!!! If man wants you for your virginity maybe you should think twice about being with him. A person should love you for the person you are and for who you are. Now I understand that our culture puts immense pressure for women to be in a certain way but things are changing and what happened with you and your boyfriend are over but that in no way should mean you will not find happiness with someone else . There are plenty of good people out there and you just gotta find the right one . Most importantly be at peace with yourself and when you make choices make sure you won't regret them even if the worst happens. Don't trust boys to the fullest protect yourself. When you do something be aware that the things that are good now might not be the same after a while if you know this you'll start enjoying the moments like everyone should because life is up and dowon. When you're up enjoy it and when you're down remember there will be something that will bring you back up. So it's ok ! Virginity is just virginity it doesn't define who you are. It should never ever be a criteria in order to find a husband.