It's a trap MOST of the time, they even have the same line "bewnet lelela neger aydelem! Beka enena anchi bedenb endinawera nw ..... The quite is so nice beka lela neger yelewim! why would you think lela neger😳😳" . The first guy that said that to me I actually felt bad that I thought the worst of him and agreed to go because in my mind I was compensating for the mistrust that I showed him😂😂😂and guess what he was lying 😂😂😂 he definitely thought something was gonna happen and was even severely offended when I said I wouldn't sleep with him😂😂 he actually left me there 😂 he sent me some texts but we never spoke after that. Second guy was a sneaky bastard we were supposed to have a date and I went to the place to have a simple lunch and talk on table and chair with people around and yes there was that initially but he had other plans he was like I have a surprise for you at the back and boom there was the room😂😂😂 the restaurant we were eating at had backrooms apparently 🤦‍♀😂😂 so he gave me the I'm offended that you even though that speech and I was like cool we'll see and there it was he was pretty insistent that we get to the next level I'm lucky I got out without being raped and that was also the last time I ever saw this guy . After that when guys say the line I just laugh and leave . One thing I don't get is isn't it easier just to ask instead of making up stories 🤷‍♀ but maybe they think once you're inside the room you'll have a different opinion or maybe they don't really care what you think.