Hey I am a 15 years old girl. I don't even know what the real me is. It's just I can be anyone to fit in his/her life. I even have friends but I don't think anyone would know me. I lie to people sooo much. I am here because I don't know how I would be ME...I am feeling life I am dying inside. Please help Ps. I don't want you to judge me...I have enough of it. I am seeking help as much as you can please help
Feb 13, 2020Honey you are only 15. You are not even an adult yet. You have alot of time to become whoever you want to be. There are fake adults all over the place. You shouldn't feel bad for pretending. But caring about being yourself shows so much maturity. List out the personality of the person you want to be and plan to make it happen. You can do it 💪 girl power. 😁
Feb 13, 2020I know that I am not adult and am just 15..what am afraid is that it will develop in me and It will reach to the point where I can't do anything about it...thanks tho
Feb 13, 2020U r 15 so I am impressed u r asking these questions good for u. But identity is a very hard question to grab it is not ur nation it is not ur religion it is not ur fam it is not what others think u r too it is an everlasting reflection of u think it like this 10years from now u r as different as u r now from 10yrs before in everything from the way u look to things u believe in; so whatever u think ur identity is it is what is left unchanged n girl I am sorry to say there is none but it doesn’t take away what is to be one self as tomorrow doesn’t come n yesterday won’t catch up so identify is who u r now n the question u should ask is not who am I would like who I am now tmr
Feb 13, 2020You are conistantly trying to please people and that is what making you change all the time and do you feel unloved by your parents or no one apretiates You?or are you like the invisible sibling in your home?cuz usually lack of affection will do this to you You need to fix the problem from the root
Feb 16, 2020Ask yourself why? To whom I'm lying? Is it to my parents, my friends, people I've just met? Or is it when I'm asked personal questions? or do I just lie to everybody? Start with these questions if really want the answer. But what I advise you is that you should try to know yourself bit by bit, starting from the little things then to the bigger ones like why do you lie constantly. first start from the things you like it might be as silly as the foods you like and dont like so on and so forth. Then move on to other things like things that annoy you, things that anger you, when does your mood change,... and at last you'll get to the point that you'll know the things that make you sad. What I'm saying is focus on your every single move and ask yourself why you did it. don't concern yourself why other people do things, because if you dont have enough knowledge of yourself you'll always be wrong and end up thinking everyone is out to get you. So just focus on yourself! P.s My best guess is its a defense mechanism to try and avoid people knowing you. Maybe along with trust issues. Or maybe you just want know everything about others around you while they dont know anything about you. Try your best to know why is it but I advise you to start from the little things. And If you dont like who you are after you know yourself you can change the things you dont like but if you dont know urself fist hand you'll just be pretending. Anyways good luck.
Feb 14, 2020Try being alone for a little time have a you time do your thing whatever you want that's how you find yourself and or maybe you're someone who can be friends with anyone you blend in and take the personality of your friends and if that's the case just accept it just chill with the lying
Feb 14, 2020First you have to believe what you are, who you are, why im in this world, family, religion ......after that accept it what ever the outcome is if your friends dont like or want too hear your true inner voice then they are not your friends. True friends won't mind to hear your problems so if you develop this you don't have to lie to your friends " acceptance " is the main thing to know your future.
Feb 13, 2020Aha ere teye gena eko 15 ametesh nw gena sent neger yetebekesh yele ende bezu neger!! So now focus on ur class menamn kechalesh be emenetesh tseleye it will be fine eshi ayzogne💪💪💪
Feb 13, 2020Okey you want help in what way 😳❔
Feb 21, 2020Enem endezi eysemache nebre the solution is give time to your self to know about youself and you are so young to feel like that
Feb 14, 2020That's great... I wish I was mature enough for self searching... what can I help you with?
Feb 14, 2020If you want to talk about it hit me up sis.
Feb 14, 2020Np if u went to know more I can give u books
Feb 13, 2020I feel the same about me😅
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