Dude if she loved you “a lot“ she wouldn’t act that way bruh. Trust me bruh. If she were really interested in you, she would call you constantly, and if you meet she would want to be near you always, show everyone around you that you’re her man. If she is acting cool, then she probably ain’t interested. If a chick is interested in you, she won’t play games. She won’t take any chance. Girls are really upfront when it comes to what they really want.