My problem is that I haven't been able to make a genuine connection for a while now. I used to date a lot in highschool but ever since I got to uni 3 1/2 yrs back I've never been so lucky to have that with anyone, not rly. All I've had are dozens and dozens of hookups and onenight stands that have given me a bad reputation. Every girl i talk to assumes I'm just in it for the sex so they either dismiss my advances or use me to get back at their ex or smth. It's gotten to a point where I've forgotten how to treat a girl. I have this "yetem athedem" mindset so usually I'm not as nice to girls as i should be and I can feel myself drifting more and more into that everyday. So my qn is how do i get past this? Ik it sounds pathetic but i can't just let myself be that guy.
Jan 19, 2020I tell you not to date till someone really captures your mind n heart like really really...ion think you ever loved or felt that feeling...so first you gotta settle know what you really want...n to have a relationship you gotta take break n stop hooking up mnamn to change your image in girls mind..I'm not saying you should give a damn about what people think but you created that image n you've to change that and in that process try to see the girls in your compass if that's where you wanna date...after you think you are ready go as a girl out not zmblo girl..the girl you like...she may say no mnamn cuz you've reputation so wait for her n try to show her how you've changed be a gentleman n stuff n try your chance again...demo esua embi stlh lela set ga endathed😶 Why's my advice always long🙆🏽♀ Anyways good luck
Jan 19, 2020