as half tegaru I think i could qualify for both questions First not all of the tegarus are the same. For example my friend who is a full tegaru still loves his Ethiopian side but he said he kind of feel pushed when other people are around. And i can conform that too since i have witnessed it too. There is still somthing left if we worked on them (or us idk how to say it). The hate for Ethiopia come from this wrong attitude where ethiopianism is kind of Amharanism which didn't show a good face towards the tegaru(neither most of the tegaru so no side to blame). For the second part i am not Amhara but i think there is no Ethiopia without tigray. I don't have to be amhara to answer this. The amhara people i think should just forget the past in the past(which is really really hare thing to do after what TPLF has done to Amhara people) and have a positive attitude towards other tegarus(After all not all of us are woyanes). So what can we do to get out of all of this? Well kind of hard question to answer but i think there is a chance if the two peoples elite come in one table and have a civilized discussion (doesn't have to be open) and say what ever they want to say once and for all. The people of tigray and Amhara are the most similar ones in all of Ethiopia regarding religion,culture and history but the problem is they both think they deserve power on the other which can not happen. Either they co-exist or both of them don't exist. This applies to all of people who use their ethic background as shield. So stop blaming each other things have been done on both sides. There is no revenge which justifies that and GROW THE FUCK UP! YOU ANR YOUR PARTY ARE NOT THE SAME YOU DON'T HAVE TO DEFEND YOUR PARTY EVEN IF YOU KNOE THEY MADE A MISTAKE. POLITICS IS A PART OF YOUR LIFE NOT ALL OF YOUR LIFE.