I’m Pretty sure you are not attractive looking. In order for people to be comfortable with you, you have to be attractive. People don’t care what you say. They have to feel comfortable with you first before anything. Don’t worry on how to communicate or anything like that. Honestly asses your attractiveness and rate yourself from 1 - 10. If you’re a below 7 then no one gives a shit on how you communicate. They just don’t want to be around you. That’s the cold hard truth.