I used to be like you before. Am 19 now and I had alooooooooot of girls friends. You wanna know what helped? Talk to a lot of girls I mean like a looooot of girls. And ur gonna hit a wall most of the time. I mean the worst they can do is leave u on seen or block you but it'll help building your confidence if u don't stop trying Well all of the comments here with the pick lines help break the ice. What most people dont tell you is what to do next when she replies positively to your shot. Don't go interrogation mode. (Simesh manes Yet new minoriw Yet new mitamriw/mitseriew) A 100 guys ask her that a week u need stand out so keep going with the pick up like make more jokes keep her interested and she'll do the interrogation I swear. From then on talk bedenb beka like u have to mekeskes alot you know. Don't tell her boring shit or super sax shit. Just enough to keep her laughing. If talk for more than a month or two ask her out DONT EVER TELL A GIRL YOU LOVE HER TOO FAST Even if u like her very much wait a couple of months before you do that unless she says that first.