A guy who used to be my crush sexually violated me three years ago and I was traumatised for a long time. Now for the first time in my life I am in love(in r/ship of 1 yr & half) and I was thinking not to tell my bf about my past ever. What d/c does it make? Would u tell ur boyfriend if u were in my shoes? Now our relationship is getting serious I'm stressing out.
Feb 14, 2021Betenegriew yeshalale be relationship weste mister ayasaseflgm ande ken ewentun ke Lela sw kaweke leteleyayu tecehlalachu gebash a
Feb 14, 2021I really think u should tell him because if he really loves u he wont give a fuck about ur past and will do everything he can 2 protect u no matter what. But if he reacts then u can see that he is not the one for u
Feb 14, 2021Idk y they keep making it abt him when it is clearly about u honey, look it is 100% ur choice. U shoulf be able to communicate about the past with ur spouse. Do u feel ready to talk about it? R u willing to put that on the table right now or do u want to wait? It might affect ur relation if he found out kedemosh gn a real men will understand and be by ur side. Can I just take a moment to admire who strong u r? I mean the fact that u kept it this long and he didn't know rasu its very impressive. I like how u still trust and be with some one... Queen u r a true inspiration 💛💛💛💛. God bless ur soul and I hope u r completly healed
Feb 14, 2021Truly I'm sorry for what happened before. But past is past and I'm happy for today of you being in another new person and getting in relationship. As my opinion, I should tell you this. I know it is hard to tell anyone about Sexual violation, especially for beloved one. But you must know that he is someone you loved and you are someone he loved. This means you should share common things as well. Both of you must know each others' feeling, behaviours and part of your stories. So, even though you are afraid, you must tell him calmly and convince him. He must hear these things as soon as possible. Yeah, I know you will be afraid of losing him. But the more you last, it is known that he will know (usually,after marriage or he might hear from another person). At that time, it will be critical relationship between both of you because of lack of Transparency. So, you must seek your stories to him...that you love him, you will be comfortable with him, wanna share your stories..then tell him. I know he will understand you. If he really understands you, he will love you more than before❤️. If he leaves you, leave him because he is a bitcb and friend of benefit. But I surely believe that he will understand you. I wish the nicest for you❤️😊
Feb 14, 2021Thank you so much
Feb 15, 2021Girl I know how much it's very hard to tell a guy such a serious past. But you can't hide him forever. I think true love is all about to accept the person we love with his/her past whatever it's. Your situation is what happened with out your consent & you are a victim to it. No matter what if he really loves you he needs to accept your past & let it go. You are his present & future so your past must be your past for him.
Feb 14, 2021For me if u would tell me that kinda past I would love u more and feel ur pain and I would try my best to make u happy for the rest of ur life
Feb 14, 2021In my opinion you should tell him the truth if u two are getting serious about ur r/ship then be brave and tell him b/c u may have a bright future with this man so no reason to lie😇
Feb 14, 2021In my opinion dont tell him..... habesha guys are soooo not in to this kind of shit. They are realy afraid of this kind of situation. I know you have to share your pain with your loved once but dont........ if i were him i wont need to tell me tho
Feb 14, 2021ብትነግሪው ጥሩ ነው ምንም ግንኙነት የለውም ግን, ምን አስበሽ ነው
Feb 14, 2021Ene I would say tell him i mean if he rly loves u he will be with u and support u no matter what it may be hard for him gn just tell him is my opinion
Feb 14, 2021of course i will tell him because wedefit maweku aykerm slezi honest mehon demo tiru nw so ene negeriw baye negn
Feb 14, 2021I really think you should
Feb 14, 2021You can answer by your own self, If he knew it before you tell him guess what would happen ? And if he loves you he will be by your side so don't worry tell him
Feb 14, 2021Tell him if he really loves you. Or you can keep it a little longer.
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Feb 14, 2021In a relationship, some things are better when left untold. Ende ene experience beteley over thinker kehone traumatized lihon selemichel batnegeriw desyilegnal. Gin still metfelegiwen support or attention endisetesh madreg alebesh yesum gedeta nw. Esun astekakeyi😊
Feb 14, 2021Yr crush tried to rape u and u denied it U got mental problem bro
Feb 14, 2021🙄 can you explain that to me please
Feb 15, 2021