Girls do you feel sex is a chore? Literally every girl in this channel says they don't like sex or they don't want sex before marriage. Is it because Ethiopian boys are very animalistic that they don't often satisfy women or women doesn't have sexual needs? Girls esti answer me kindly. If you are not comfortable you can just swipe up don't shit on the comments
Feb 11, 20211. Religion doesn't allow it and it didn't allow it for a reason 2. Just because a bunch of Hollywood ppl made it look normal doesn't mean it is. 3. It's intimate right so u should only do it with the one and only - the girl u marry and promise to spend the rest of ur life with. Why the rush ๐คทโโ
Feb 12, 2021I'm just afraid that my boyfriend might want to try what he sees on porn movies..
Feb 12, 2021Truuue.. Plus demo the animalistic side mibalewm kesu yemeta ymeslegnal.
Feb 12, 2021I believe sexual desire differs in every person. Different girls have different desire. Well for me Habesha guys don't really understands what sex is all about & knows how to satisfy a girl. I mean how many of you guys really reads, Google or discuss about sex to understand it? I doubt that. Sex's a mind game. And a guy who knows how to play it will satisfy or make a girl reach at her climax.
Feb 12, 2021I'm on answering on the side of no sex before marriage, I don't think sex is a chore rather a unique bonding for a husband and wife created to be happy with eachother by God. 1 ,is Its a sin it's created strictly bn married couples 2,is no one wants to risk getting pregnant, why take post pill? we don't have plan to be barren nor plan to abort .hey things could go wrong ๐คทโโ 3,is we see sometimes that guys right after sex or taking virginity they leave, 4,we want to keep our virginity for the person that we will marry in the future ,how come we can be sure your the one no 5,why can't you wait till marriage ? if you love her can't you stay without sleeping with her , I believe this will answer your question to some percentage
Feb 12, 2021I read the rest of the comments and they are ridiculously clichรจ. And not even an answer to your question but I'll get to them in a min. For me i want to say somtimes because my husband wants to do it like all the time if he could, with him being a guy and all. But its all depends on your mood and the person you with. For example, if am not in the mood or am feeling tried that day and i dont want to do alot of the work, my husband will get me in the mood. Not eveytime tho, sometimes he understands and he just backs off. And i think most women feel its a chore is because they are brainwashed into thinking sex is a bad thing and if you dare enjoy it you disappoint God. And there are also a bunch of other things we've been to suppress our sexual nature which lead us to either be super conservative or super out of uncontrollable slutty(excuse the word). And i can go into why this is done but for now I'll leave it at that and hope you got the answer you are looking for.
Feb 12, 2021Thanks for answering kindly i think i agree on your points this is the social walls that have been built by out grandparents and parents
Feb 12, 2021Even though we don't say it of course we like it, we would imagine how our first time would be and stuff. But we don't get why there should be a rush, we want to take it slow b/c we don't want to make a mistake that we'll regret for the rest of our lives.
Feb 12, 2021We obviously have sexual needs. Personally i love sex.... i wanna fuck when i get bored, stressed or just to have a good time. Communication demo gd nw to make it even more fun
Feb 12, 2021My girlfriend and I are very open with our needs, including the details. ๐ And yeah, I can tell you that she pretty much has an equivalent amount of sexual needs as I do... We talk about it at times, but we've both agreed that we'd save ourselves until we get married. I believe there's no need to rush.
Feb 12, 2021First Most boys don't know how to satisy the lady. They only care about thier sexual feeling Second Our religion, social and culture Third All boys think they deserve sex as soon as they have gf. Which most ladies doesn't find it appealing Most ladies suffered from a guy that leaves just after sex. They imagined they could stay forever, but the guy all the want is that one time sex
Feb 12, 2021I will be honest with you. I haven't done it yet because I have this feeling that the guys I had been together with wouldn't understand my desires and feelings when it comes to intimacy so let's just say I am afraid of flesh pain or the vulnerable feeling I might face if he faked his love just for that day.(my two big sisters were prays in this disgusting trap) so I was never open to guys I have been with. Like tbh sometimes I pray for a guy who asks me what I want before he actually does it and do it as I want it to be. As you may know guys are not open to read and ask about relationships and sex before the act. (Guys are into actions and girls are about analysing) that could've help them in satisfying their lady. About religion, the bible says, men and women has responsibilities in marriage. guys three responsibilities when it comes to their wife and house are, -they provide , -they protect and -they satisfy their woman. It says a husband can neither force intimacy on his wife nor can he deny satisfaction/intimacy when she asks for it. How many habesha guys know this ? What they know is that they can get a wife. that means a guaranteed sex everyday. And the wife can not say no to him Because she is his wife. that's what the society thought us. To answer your question I definitely don't think of it as a chore it's something you do with your loved ones. And for the reasons I mentioned on top Ive decided to do it with my husband and I am sure it will be special. We can experiment you know. I can talk in the behalf of women that if they find a guy who puts her satisfaction as important as his is and who asks them what they want there is no way women won't ask for it openly to their partners.
Feb 16, 2021Thanks for sharing this really detailed honest answer. I totally get where you come from i mean if my feature wife tells me she is not in the mood i would totally get it but if this happens often i suspect something is wrong with the whole thing. Or even may challenge my masculinity psychologically or may feel she is not attracted to me anymore. And another way of seeing it tossed by one of commentors is if a girl says she loves a man and has been in a r/shp with him for over 3 or 4 year and she is still resisting sex doesn't that mean she is somehow uncommitted? Esti think about it some one you love is saying they don't want to have sex with you because they feel you will use them? I am not saying sex is the only way to love but you doesn't it make you think you are unloved? Sorry for the long reply i hope you find somebody you really trust.
Feb 16, 2021It's not a chore but sleeping with every guy u like/ make your boyfriend is not appealing ๐คทโโ What's wrong with waiting till marriage?
Feb 13, 2021I am not saying you should sleep with every guy you meet but at least the ones that you are in a long relationship?
Feb 13, 2021I think sex is cool & girls are humans it's like basic need in the rest of the world but most ethiopian guys are not loyal they don't know how to respect women they give more time for their guys & they take virginity as big deal & they start to disrespect the girl that give herself for them so why do we need sex with these boys๐คทโโ
Feb 12, 2021But virginity is a big deal you can't expect me to like a loose wall and a hollow chamber who swallow dick like black holes swallow everything around them.
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Feb 12, 2021I think most us we didn't enjoy sex mostly we think about the pain even if we already get married.
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