The guy who is tryin' to get the girl WON'T get her cause he will be afraid of losing her and thus won't make a move.. if you a real nigga with honest intentions, go for it.. tell her you wanna see her more often cause you think she is a strong, beautiful woman and you want her as more than a friend cause she is worth it.. don't be shy, believe me even if she turns you down she will respect you as a man as long as you respect her and her decisions even after she rejects you.. there is nothing that shows you are a confident man who is in touch with his emotional needs more than being vulnerable and sticking your neck out for her.. real women find this sexier than anything.. And if she chooses to treat you with disrespect because you opened up or plays games with you, again.. be honest, tell her she is being disrespectful and you don't tolerate that and leave her right there and then.. there are lots of women who will see you for who you really are, don't land for an insecure girl who puts you down to make herself feel good.. live that way and no woman will ever disappoint you.. I hope this helps you not only on this specific girl but also how you interact with women and people in general for your whole life to come...