Because most girls are stupid they go for the dump wack ass stupid boys....fuck both of them ....just be better version of ur self and everything u want will be urs.

A women's mind is like quantum physics....or I'm stupid

It's apparently not wrong but at the end of the day you can't help it but think it's incongruous with the absurdity that wafts through people's heads. (And this liable to threaten your efforts to be yourself.) And what sucks the most is when the girls you find interesting turn out to be more interested in dudes with those kinds of traits and on the other hand, the girls who seem to be interested in dudes who have similar traits as you don't happen to interest you. (The universe being it's typical bitch of a self.) It's really frustrating to figure people out (I mean, no shit. Yeah, whatever.) but really! Maybe, they fancy emotional challenges (and only a "dumb wack ass stupid" tosses a person into an emotional rollercoaster), or maybe they don't find intelligence thrilling and if you are nice and caring it might give the impression that you are being clingy (something that threatens their liberty) or it might give the impression that you are vouchsafing more attention than needed and that could, again be scary, and maybe they don't think they deserve what you offer (like it's too good for them) and that will lead to having cold feet (I mean who are they to be treated with precedency and accept all the love and care from another soul, right?), or maybe immaturity is having its moments or maybe the heart really wants what it wants (definitely lame but definitely a possibility too) or maybe some people are just assholes and take kind hearts for punching bags. So yeah, we can list multiple reasons but none will ascertain our queries. So, you have like a couple of options: 1, To be yourself and be disappointed at the end of the day. 2. To be someone you are not and entertain someone who, you know, won't like you for who you are and feel shitty about yourself at the end of the day. So yeah, since everything is a possibility, I can pretty much say you have chances of meeting a girl who appreciates intelligence and a caring behavior (if not, then I hope it won't make you stop being a caring and a kind person. You cant be that lame.)

Ever since I was in elementary I had crushes on many guys and all of them were smart. When asked 'ur type?' I wud say smart while others say handsome, fit, cook,... I really thought there was something wrong with me for a long time. I means I was literally attracted to his brain more than his face or body(not that I don't admire that too). And well I quit on everything till I met him. U will also find that someone who will love u for being u. Its amazing once u find that...u don't have to even try..cause u guys wud love each other for who u guys r. Hang in there buddy.

Cuz you got no social skills🤷‍♀

its more abt confidence, it seems girls prefer the rude guys gin its is not the rudeness they like its the confidence which rude ppl r full of..

Don't listen to them.dont be a second dad

I'm in love with you right now. It's nothing wrong. Maybe you're shy and you don't express your feeling to a girl or maybe girls think of you as some smart ass dude who is tibaram minamn

This is a bit late but u need to understand. No one likes to be degraded. Us women tend to gravitate towards more masculine less agreeable men that it just how we're wired. And often times being "nice" means that the man is harmless well that's no good! If ur a man u need to be assertive and capable of harm. U need to be able to say no and defend urself and ur partner. U need to be capable of harm and also have the self control needed. Sort of like having a sword and keeping it in its sheath. Be masculine. Be good, not nice. Know when and who to be aggressive with. Your strength is for protecting, not hurting. I believe this is what we women mean when we say "bad guy". Or atleast what we should

Are you really a nerd tho?

I think I read this somewhere "Being nice is what you do when you don't have that much interesting thing to provide." Answer me this do you feel attracted to a 4 just because she is nice to you?

I said she aint a hoe b/c some dude suggested that I shoud go around fuckin hoes Not cause she won't like me back cause only she knows that whether she likes me or not

Girls naturally fall for the wrong one. Most of us...🙃

Scarcity principle read about it

It is so adorable to be caring and intelligent you just didn't met the right girl

Well u don't seem like it

What you don't understand is girls have options... men in her friend zone, tens of men who hit on her during her day, another ten she talks to on social media, the list goes on .... so considering your competition your caring& kindness doesn't mean shit... (Assuming your girl isn't a 4)

One will understand surely and wait for her bra😉