Hey I am that guy who claimed my friend might have assaulted my gf, turns out I was right. A lot has came down these past days. Smon asked for an update also I wanted to do it plus it will be a way to thank y'all for your advise. It calmed me down and helped me to think about it more before i do things out of rage. So yeah thanks. My gf is 20 soon to be 21 and in med school and she prefers my place to study sometimes when she has no class. I went home early on Wednesday, I sat her dpwn and asked her straight why she doesn't want to be around him/any of my friendss lately. she acted like she was in a hurry to leave and said "I have to study .. I can't hang out withh them .." when I said "mn argosh new" she started sobbing and told me that he came t my place while she was there, she let him in then he procided to forcefully touch her and other thingsn. that was that. I don't want to go to the details. The next day, I told him that she told me everthing. he was like "I didn't know what I was doing. it was a one time mistake..." He apologised...I think I made a scene there, then left.(i didn't go after that day) but the fact that he did that a month ago,after I started sharing everrything with him just can't get out of my head. I feel defeated man, he clearly didn't respect my boundaries. he knows what she means to me. We share the finances of our new business. I can't withdraw from it, it's my idea in the first place and I can't kick him out easily since he has 40% share. Also I feel like a looser cause I obv didn't protect her and she gets to see him with me. She became so emotional after she told me, cries whenever she sees me these past days and that's freaking me out even more. She barely cried before all this. Balawku noro eyalku new ahunma I appreciate any kind of advise. Dame this is long.
Jan 16, 2021We all want to know what that MF did. I guess it wasn't just a touch. Did he raped her or forcefully did something? Why not go to court? That will help u cope with feeling of being defeated and shit. Shemgelena rasu kelake that's a big win given the fact that u guys share business together
Jan 16, 2021