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Okay listen very carefully. You are like a person who is switching the light off in your home but go and complain to the electricians about ur light. I see you as a good hearted person but u need to open up ur eyes and see what u are really doing. Your first mistake starts when u give money for your friends. This is the basic problem. You need to know that u have no obligation to give them money. Its okay for them to think what ever they want. So stop that. I know its hard to do that but if u dont take action they u are literally killing ur self. Learn how to take actions. It is okay to say NO. because finally they will eat u up till u have nothing left. Beaides how can u have such friends? Look friends dont nag or trouble their beloved one. A good person knows its self very well, and it is not independent on one another. This friends as i can see are even using u as an instruments for their laziness. Let me ask u
DONT YOU WANNA BE A PERSON WITH GOALS AND DREAMS AND STRATEGIES??????
Do u always wanna be dreamless?
Do u want to continue like this for ever????
Because it seems like u want to stay there unless u take some actions.
Second yes i feel u, especially being aided by our parents even when we are old. Our community calls it SHAMEFUL. but let me tell u friend the time is not yet. Dont give up. U still have time. Remeber u are not created with out a purpose. God created you so that u can do something not nothing. And undeniably your parents expects greater things from u....not just a person who waits for money. Therefore take action.
1, Dont mind what others say about u. Kefelegu they can say ur bad...or demo they might make u be hated by other ppls. They might even spread false gossips but pls dont mind. Cause u live for ur seld not for them. God created us to work by our selves and earn by our selves. So develop good mentally and be strong than ever cause ur not some ordinary person.
2, stop asking money from ur fam. Because their hardwork isn't some game. And ur friends need to understand this whether they like it or not. And about tmur conscious yeahhh i really get that too, but they way u win is by avoiding things like that. So stop. And also decide to change.
Now bro/ sis i know ur reading this right now. So stop everything and think. What u have done till now, What wrong paths u have walked, what u regret in ur teen life. Write down ur goals. Ur dreams. What u wanna achieve and so on. Even right down what u want to do for ur family. Then compare it with who u are now. Do u think thia is good then? No, definitely not. So what we should do is change they way u live. Change ur self. Be strong and tough. Then work each and every single day to earn ur dreams.
Friend it is not about dreams but it is about making them into actions!!!
So pls focus.
Search and ask ppl about work. Especially seek advices from elder ppl because they have experience and knowledge. But youngs like us are emotional enam its not preferrable. Pls again pls i am begging u to stop being like before. Search for online courses. They are rly important. And also there are telegram channels which have sources for jobs. So dont give up, today start ur new life. Delete and drop that past habits of urs. If u dont there wont be change. Selezih i hope u have realized now that the solution u came up like being alone is tera hasab and zelaki yalhone whixh leads u to depression, anxiety and unsuccessful. And also it will make u hate friends or have bad image about friends. Selezih endemibalew ke negetive people merak yasfelegal. Look in my life i always felt guilty of others. I worry when they are sad. I worry because i was not becoming what i want to be. I aas worrying because NOBODY couldn't understand what i feel. I wanted to change but i couldn't. I was STUCK. i was afraid of what ppl think about me. Cuz i would feel to much guilty. Kmr i was in the middle.😕 but then i changed my thinking.
My friend be a person who u really wanna be. If ppls action determine ur life then its wrong.
Kedem endalkut yesew hasab, aseteyayet, semet,
Jan 14, 2021
