So here's my question. Me and my bf recently tried to have sex(i'm a virgin) but we couldn't b/c it was so painful I couldn't resist the pain when he tried to get it in. We tried 3 or 4 times but it was the same. Only 1 finger can fit in my vagina(am sry if i disgusted u). So we tried but I immediately tell him to stop when it hurts. He says this is hw it should be it hurts but I need to resist the pain till it gets in. So Is sth wrong with me or this happened to y'all when u lost ur virginity...did it hurt this much? Pls tell me honestly