Personally i can wait as long as it takes. I found a girl who loves me for me and is there for me even when i push her away. She is the real deal to me. And i am in no rush to have sex because she the one i wanna build a life with. So even though i am a guy and i have urges to do stuff or i could pressure her to do it. But i dont let it control me because i care about her and i want her to be okay with it too. And honestly that's only made us better..her trust in me is absolute and mine in her. We talked about it and take it slow. I know she mine and some quick fuck ain't worth what i have with her. So as long as it takes. Its not a priority for me. she is.