Hey y'all👋👋👋. It might be long but hear me out. I'm struggling over here on being vulnerable towards a girl I really like and she also does. But the thing is that even though I've been working on being vulnerable all year to people who're like my friends and family, I stil struggle being vulnerable. What's worse is that it's not just being vulnerable that's thought, it's me playing games (hard to get), look uninterested to talk to her, and over all making everything complicated which also makes her complicated and do things to get my attention by ways that would seem harsh to me (decreasing the chance of my vulnerability). This situation might not seem complex from a third person view and say just go for it, but this feels like I need this to fix this from a psychological perspective. And even if it's not for now to get things right with this girl, it's really for the future too when the real struggle beings. What should I do you guy's, any helpful thoughts you can share cause that would mean A LOT to me😁
Dec 30, 2020yo have u ever considered the worst thing that could happen if u let down ur guard n be vulnerable? like mn yimetal? I know it's not easy man I mean think of it she might loose interest, break ur heart, or dumb u but who cares? u'll move on n that'll be that ...... not facing ur insecurities will make u pay bro specially when dealing with people that truly matter, if u have the guts to play games with this girl then I bet she ain't that important .... so just imagine the worst thing possible (that she could possibly do to u) if u let urself go.... that worked for me I hope it'll for u ..... sry for the long text
Dec 30, 2020