15 Signs He's Cheating On You If you think your guy is pulling some shady shit, chances are he is. Trust your gut — but when in doubt, see if he's indulging in any of these signs. 1. He tells you he isn't really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he continues to talk to you and lead you on in a way that seems serious. You just go with it because he is cute, seems genuine, gives you attention, and you might just think he'll change and realize you're "the one." 2.He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the bathroom. 3. You haven't met a lot of his friends even though you hang out with him a lot. They're always busy. 4. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person's,making him unreachable for extended periods of time. 5. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around but not enough to actually move forward in your "relationship." 6. He always has a reason why you can't meet up with him. Like he's "not sure when he'll be off work" or it's "just the guys." 7. Every time you call him out on something ,he turns it around on you,saying you're being clingy or crazy. 8. He refers to himself here and there as "a loner." Time to walk the F away. 9. He is a shitty communicator and takes forever to text you back. Duh, because he's texting countless other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you. 10. He can't commit — to you or to future plans 11. Everyone he follows on Instagram appears to be a sexy-looking, half-naked woman. 12. He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren't saved under names. You can bet those numbers are attached to girls who are conversing with him in a flirty manner. Trust. 13. You haven't met his family. OK, maybe his mom, but she doesn't even know what he's up to, and you only met her for an hour. 14. He has his text messages secured with pattern 15. When you pick up his phone to do something innocuous like check the time he FREAKS OUT and/or snatches it away from you with some lame excuse like "my mom's texts are embarrassing" or "phones are really personal." If you calmly and sincerely approach your partner about the thought that something seems off or makes you uncomfortable, and he or she lashes out and make you feel insecure or insane, it's because s/he is deflecting. A caring relationship involves talking things out and caring about one another's feelings and validating them, while trying to resolve an issue in a constructive and healthy way.