So when it comes to r/ship I believe, u need to have some special attraction to the opposite sex to be married or be in r/ship, but all my friends oppose that they say love comes through time but me I need to have at least an idea when I see a girl for the first time to be ma gf someday... I have (girl) friends (just friends) most of them fall in love with me through time and I let them down bcoz I don't even take it for consideration just bcoz I didn't hv that special attraction when I first see them. And I really hate that bcoz I lost many good friends of mine just bcoz we were not in r/ship Am I too delusional to think like that????