BABY GIRL, when someone treats you like you're just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do, becuase sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. it's not pride - it's self- respect, don't give part - time people a full - time position in your life. know your value and what you have to offer, and never settel for anything less than what you desrve.