I do understand u I've a brother 👨‍🦱and also his friends so from what I know it happens most of the time also I'm a girl 👩‍🦰I have friends so from what I notice and heard my suggestion for u ... 1st careful with ur action what u call them, in times u spend with them, normal action always not sth unique in every moment cause girls feeling awaken so easily... 2nd in ur moments with them show them u don't want such a thing not word by word just in other issues, talks, in simple manners 3rd if all this don't work u need to tell them word by word ( endwm once my bro said to a girl "endechawetbesh nw mtfelgiw??") as u said if u say no before noting happen they will be disappointed for that time but if u say okay then when things fall down they will be hurted for their life time there is a big d/c b/n these two. So u need to start saying no!!! I hope this will be helpful 😊😊😊😊😊