Hi am a π©βπΌ I really need your serious advice Am soon to be 27 most of the time everybody tell me that am positive, good hearted and beautiful π but when it comes to dating most of the guys have the guts to hurt me and leave me heartbroken πI suffered a lot and still suffering my loneliness is hurting me day by day and making me depressed so can u please advice me please ππ
Dec 09, 2020Sweetheart, i am sorry you have to go through this. Even though I have Never been in a relationship before, I can understand human behaviors a little bit and make some assumptions. Here is what I think. The guys you dated probably got the hint that you needed them. So don't ever show that to any guy. You need to be appeared as if you have a life that their stupid actions can't have the impact they want to see. Remember we can live without them but they cant.Thats the truth ryt after all we are created to help men as they can't stand alone. So it is actually their loss not yours. This is why we(girls) got hurt easily. Because of our nature we want to take care of those of our loved ones, but forget to reserve some to ourselves. I suggest , you should make your life more interesting. Like have true friends which you can have meaningful relation, visit places, have some hobbies, update your self, exercise, try new things, new hobbies, participate in charity, have a very interacting work environment, be engaged in community. I mean life is toooooo broad and too short to spent time stressing over such rediculous stuffs. Once you are occoupied doing those things, ppls start to flow in your life . then they watch you getting busy enjoying your perfect little worldπ. Once they know how you treat your self independently, they will treat you even better.
Dec 09, 2020