Hy yall How do you think u can motivate someone who is 20+ and been so in non stopping desperate dark life, and who believes that things are never going to be better(like she cant change or improve) and things are getting worse plus she is aging , i just dont know how , i tried so many times but her life keeps getting dark🙁 help me help her
Dec 09, 2020Read “The Power of the Subconscious Mind” by Dr Joseph Murphy and read it THOROUGHLY. Digest the information and apply it wholeheartedly. If you do this, you will have a much better life, a brighter life.
Dec 09, 2020Technique #1 when you want to make someone listen to what you are saying, make sure she’s not hungry, if she is feed her, mind needs food to work. Tell her, she’s not the only one going thru something like that—- dark life... life is truly unfair. And tell her if she want to be out of the dark life she is going thru, she have to move forward and make a shift on her steps and never lose hope. Its not about how many times you fall or being bad, it about not quitting on what you want or change you wanted to have in your life. Yes, it will be hard to advise someone you haven’t been in same situation, don’t tell her it’s okay, coz surely it’s not instead there will be a time that things will be better for her but she have help herself on her situation. It is okay to be sad, to cry to fall, to be angry to and to be desperate in the dark situation but living and staying on it is a different story. Everyday is a new day, a change to a new step... Happiness is a choice... if you want you want to be happy you have to choose to be happy :) This is what i have learned in my life journey, victory is best experienced when you have known failure and the deepest part of hell of life. If she choose to be strong and help herself up amidst of the situations she is having right now, one day when things get better for her she’ll just smile and say, it’s a good thing i choose to moved forward. People who has a dark past has the greatest story to tell after going thru hell of life. Above all, pray for her and let her know that God is watching over her, She just need to ask for God’s help, and even tho it seems that God is not listening, He does. Just don’t give up and plead for God’s mercy and guidance to survive in this unfair world :) Hopefully this will help. 🙏🏽
Dec 09, 2020Keep being stronger! u may be only one day away to see the bright light! Believe in inner motivation and feel urself more than anything
Dec 09, 2020@keepinspired, this might help.
Dec 10, 2020Tell her to get good with God. " And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. ... What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8 :28 & 31) And also Make her read Atomic Habits
Dec 09, 2020You Can't help someone with out knowing the reasons so try Tom find the reasons and show her that nomatter what happen you are with her that helped me i hope it will work for her too
Dec 09, 2020No particular reason, she just been through i lot gn tanx for ur advice
Dec 10, 2020The monk who sold his Ferrari by robin Sharma .... Tell her to read this book u can download it on pdfdrive.com .... It helped me alot
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