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I remember reading psychology books that children who experienced trauma during childhood like divorce,absent or abusive parent grow up to expriance problems in relationship.i grew with my mom and my dad was never there from the very start.He is distant, uninvested and not very caring.now that I am adult but the idea of intimate relationship scares the hell out of me.normal male female relationship is normal but once it starts to get romantic I distance my self .there is this unexplainable fear and doubt that feels me.any one who relates to me?how u guys coping?

Nov 20, 2020

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2moreon

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I grew up in a messed up family but i didn't want to be like them. So I am good by myself now, i dont fear r/n, rather i want to live a love life that my parents couldn't show me. I wanted to be different and worked toward personal development then their mood stoped to affect mine. U can be urself through gradual change. "What doesn't kill u makes u stronger" so learn from ur past but don't let it affect ur present life.

Nov 21, 2020

Anonymous

Thank you 🙌 such an inspiration 🙏

Nov 21, 2020

Latte

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I lost my dad to death when i was 9 and lost many more people to death just about that age. I do have attachment and abandonment problems. But i tell myself that not everyone is the same bot everyone is going to die when they get close to me. It's really hard to overcome it. It took me almost 10 years. So go easy on yourself. Good luck!

Nov 21, 2020

CyanPuma45

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Well you said it your self ...its psychology..which means you can change it through time...I'm sure there are lots of book for your case and read them too

Nov 21, 2020

VividLemur75

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If you want love, you gon have to go through the pain If you want love, you gon have to learn how to change If you want trust, you gon have to give some away —NF

Nov 21, 2020

Anonymous

Love that song😊

Nov 21, 2020

AgentHaha

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This is NOT TRUE! I can prove it to you with my life! Well my mom never had parents from the start. She was an orphan and she grew up in an orphanage with all it's problems. Becha long story short, she is now my mother and the mother of 5, and she's been in the healthiest relationship ever for almost 25 years. Ena ke abate gar yalachewn fekir ena metemamen beka enem endeza endinoregn nw memegnew! So what I'm saying is no journal or article of psychology can alter ur life. You are Unique. You are what you want to be. And you can overcome your fear and make a healthy life! YOU CAN!!!

Nov 21, 2020

Anonymous

Thanks that's a beautiful story.i don't want to be the victim of my past bzw I want to make better choices...there was sth weird and disturbing about my behavior and how I related with men so it kind of raised a question in me and that's how I got introduced with psychology...and ezim semeta relate miyareg kale lemawek nbr .ur mom story teaches me she chose to raise above her problem and I can do that too thanks

Nov 21, 2020

Saske

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I think I just got used to being alone... Doesn't mean u should do the same tho there are ways to face ur fears

Nov 22, 2020

LemonCougar46

884

Same exact thing Im dealing with my paps was never there at all so the thought of me being with a man intimately scares tf out of me

Nov 21, 2020

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