Hello guys , let me make it short and brief, am 17 year old boy and i don't know why but am so negative😔 Even if Nothing else goes wrong i will be obsessed about things that goes wrong in the past . I feel so lonely like no one can understand me is it me or every body feel the same way , i have tried to get some one but i don't think they can feel me , is it me or some of you ppl also have this weird perception ........... 🥀
Nov 17, 2020Every damn teenager has the same stupid feeling look y'all niggaz need to grow people don't feel you it's a fact it's just a waste looking for a partner that'll understand you not having a goal in life is what makes y'all do this dumb shit gecho self a life man grow up you don't need to be in your twenties to be a grown man it's all mental get yo shit together at an early age so you could have a giant ass pile of shit when you grow up that's what you should do not look for an understander, I can literally help ya if you want dm me.
Nov 18, 2020U know that is my problem u wrote.. Even if there is no -ve thing, I will made up the worst scenarios in my head...and i guess the reason is u might have gone through rough time in past and held it inside of u. That toxics your attitude u know? Like ur subconscious will tell u if u talked it with someone, they wouldn't understand u, or mock u or pity u..while all u need is comfort. I guess this might be the reason u feel alone or u stopped doing the things u used to do. Either way, u should push away the negative thoughts by replacing them with positive one..this might be crazy or seems like motivational-video line heck it might seem awkward but it works fr.. U can write down the opposite of your negative thoughts. It happens when u are teenager..but you should talk to someone.. I mean it doesn't have to be about being negative, just anything... Like soccer ( since u r boy).. That helps you focus on the issue u r discussing on..not the negative thoughts that ensnare your mind.... I am sorry it is a bit too long, heck even sappy but I guess u might get one useful thing hope it helps.
Nov 19, 2020Your not alone bro if you want someone to talk Dm @cngp_c aM passing through this
Nov 18, 2020ok so ur problem is overthinking and maybe some lack of confidence probably and u just need to accept the fact that the past is in the past and u cant do shit, u can only learn from ur past mistakes and try not to make them again. do u also thing negative about the future too or is it only the past???
Nov 19, 2020I well understand you I was the same too. but there is a solution for that. you can contact my username: @mrpati so I can share with you
Nov 18, 2020Yes, i have that feeling .ammm ya it is weird And it is bad . Negwrochn beteleyaye aktacha mayetn adabr
Nov 18, 2020Ofc not everybody! U r too young to judge all circumstances, i mean u r gonna hv different life in the future. so y being so obsessed and judgy? lower ur standard and live with it happily until you meet the right one.
Nov 18, 2020Change your thought bro, ''change is never painful,the resistance to change is painful.'' Ready the stories on your holy books (either Bible or Quran). Since you have high level of Growth hormones in this time please invest in your slef by working out. Don't feel lonely😊
Nov 18, 2020