For those girls who are serious about keeping their V till marriage...how do you deal with the urge and inbuilt desire to have sex and curiosity about anything related to it .....we girls are mostly swayed by our fantacy world where we create stories in our mind and get lost in it..how do u channel the energy you waste on those things and use it for sth important.is there a way we can block any thought related with sex until it's time comes?
Nov 16, 2020let's drop the religious reasons not to do things and let me tell u reasons I give myself....any time i feel the urge or is just like fuck it lets do this shit! I think of having to take contraceptives...and the risk of pregnancy....wondering if my bf is with me just cause he wants to hit it....feeling impure just cause society made it taboo.....and most of all i worry if i wuld just give it up to everyone or anytime after that. idk i prefer to stay V than worry about this crap. Hope this helps😊
Nov 17, 2020I pray
Nov 17, 2020I read that sex drive in women is a drive for creation it is an energy to creat so I channel that energy in to doing my makeup ,doing my hair like new hair styles ,I write journals ,I cook or bake a different recipe ,I put together outfits that is where I channel all that energy just do what u like could be drawing singing dancing learning new language
Nov 17, 2020Being virgin mentally and by thoughts are so hard I can stay virgin physically but mentally no
Nov 17, 2020Mentally is equally important as physically.cos purity comprise both physical and mental aspect
Nov 17, 2020think about ur future man and it's the most expensive gift..Don't u wanna make happy ur husband and ur children's father. the man should be virgin too🙏
Nov 17, 2020I see all these people out here saying it's a sin and that purity is the best thing in life and having sex is taboo in our culture and it has consequences like getting pregnant and the man leaving you.... These people don't know what they're talking about, they are in shackles of the so called community and religion. The same community and religion that undermined and thought of woman as objects for so long. Getting back to the point of your question, it might be hard blocking the thoughts related with sex in the world we're living in. You will need to cleanse or detoxify. By that i mean, avoid the things that lead you to the thoughts of sex. That is, movies as many movies have sexual content in them, books that have sexual content in them, people that talk about sexual content... you get where I'm going with this. And you can focus the "energy" to other things like learn to draw or learn to cook, read books, write books... or all of them like that woman's comment😂. But what I don't recommend is having to let fear control you. Don't be afraid, be cautious, be careful, take care. If you know what it is and why it is, you can avoid it.
Nov 18, 2020Tbh it might be hard. If you have a religion; try to pray, or read your bible/Quran. Sitting idol really invokes your desires, so try to keep yourself busy. Also sexual fantasies are the worst things you could ever do. If you love to to create stories in your mind, which i do and did for a long time, then leave men or that perfect man you fantasize about; it not only makes it hard to control your emotions but it also affects your life in general. Especially if you spend alot of time doing it. The best way to get rid of bad habits is to replace them with better habits. So try to find a hobby; something that will keep you going. Otherwise, pray to God to help you. Or maybe even vow to God "if i loose my virginity, let this this happen to me". May God help you💕
Nov 17, 2020Good Q👏
Nov 17, 2020it's not oxygen eko 😂😂 ende kebad neger adelem for single people...and the main reason f for me is the reason why GOD forbid it...that is before marriage madreg merkes new wedefit abreshiw lathogni techyalesh so sex has so many implications...and sew bcha endisenakelebegn new yetefeterkut esum be and sew bcha so pure yemehon feeling erasu alew...it's a marriage gift!!it's so respectful eko...virgin hono enedemagbat miyaguaguagn neger yelem...beka I respect it...it's not medeberiya beye amnalew but it's just my opinion 🙄
Nov 17, 2020Think it this way if u got pregnant will he be the best father for your daughter/son and if he leaves you what will u tell your kids when they grow up
Nov 17, 2020Until who cums😉
Nov 17, 2020