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Hey guys this is something personal. Is it me that's always having friends that would only want me when they need something or is it a trend now? I am the type of a friend that would sacrifice my things whenever my friends get into trouble either emotional or financial. But after they get what they want they would either shut me or ignore me till they need something new again. Is it because I am not enough I am not the funny type I don't do small talks and by the time I need emotional support there's no one there for me. And people pity me because I am an introverted silent girl. I feel like I am not destinied to enjoy friendship 😔

Nov 16, 2020

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Samm

352

Would u pleasssssssse be my friend🙏🙏

Nov 16, 2020

RedPython99

That's the same thing you're going through like me but in my case I'm a boy. The only one who is helping me to get through this is God.

Nov 16, 2020

RadiantPerch23

Thats not your fault its their fault not to see how good you are never blame your self

Nov 16, 2020

Zenbebush

no offense but, they only see what you let them see i am saying that as an fucking introvent😣😣😒 (caz i am one

Nov 16, 2020

Buttercup

325

Girll you don't need anyone to be happy...avoid those toxic people from your life and someone will see ypu for who you're and be your true friend trust me le hulum gize alew

Nov 16, 2020

CreamPike85

I don’t think having friends now a days is good, it’s just getting hurt again and again for reasons, you don’t even understand. I wish I had someone I can call my best friend or someone I can call and tell everything.but at this point it’s just that everyone you meet is fake. But I truly understand you, I hope you find someone who sees your worth!!

Nov 16, 2020

Qwerty

I though am z only one

Nov 16, 2020

Wish_

356.5

Ohh sis u hv to b strong, coz real friend kesint 1de nw migegnew lek endanchi.....gin we all need a true friend like u i wish u could find true nd supportive friend 😊

Nov 16, 2020

Rebekah

244

Let me ask u zis.... would you be friends wiz you? Z problem is ur expectation in return to ur favor... and ur mind set abt urself... y do u tnk attract zos kind of ppl all z tym? Cuz u know evry1 wants sumtng from u, and u become frnds wiz a person like zat and just z way u expected zem 2 use u, zey will and u r left wiz a broken feeling... So my advice to u is change ur mindset, u attracted zem, u can let zem go as well.... stop expecting from anyone but yourself, and try to spend your energy, time and money on yourself before you do it for others

Nov 17, 2020

AgentHaha

883

Girl you are destined to enjoy all the happiness in the world and I'm 100% certain when i say this, YOU HAVE ASSHOLE FRIENDS! endewm endanchi aynet guadegna magegnet nw bezi zemen metadel ewnet. What i advice you is to LEAVE THEM ALL. Get new friends, friends that will like you for who you are! And yes there are beezuuuuuu sewech that will love to be your true friend. Enji you have suffered enough. You need good friends that will make you happy and are worth being there for! Ayzosh eshi yene ehet.

Nov 16, 2020

GoodKnight

116

Hey there. I get what you mean. I say it's not you, but them. And I also think it's sorta the nature of the times; people want to be so busy and occupied as to not appreciate people. I experience your situation too, but I know where they're coming from you know. And understanding your friends will help you deal with their ignorance more, like you'll know which one is hopeless and which will treat you right, doesn't make them bad people ig, just that they're not built like that ya know. Also I like people like you. Let's chat some more @gent01

Nov 16, 2020

Anonymous

For real i feel the same way about my freinds;wish i had a bestie😔

Nov 16, 2020

Weeeeeeeeeee

I don't fully understand your situation, but maybe just maybe your friends are also introverts like you. And those short periods of time they ask u for sth maybe them reaching out to find a friend. And if what I said above is not the case then I've no advice to give. Because I have friends like that and I believe/hope/guess that they are and feel like me.

Nov 17, 2020

DeepPuma36

-21

So get smh new friends real ones

Nov 17, 2020

StrongViper17

105

Girl they're not your friends their fake you'll find someone that suits you, just avoid them and don't give them the support they want if they're not there for u when you need one

Nov 17, 2020

Latte

1192

Make yourself your number 1 priority. Everything else comes next including your friends. People treat you the way you treat yourself.

Nov 17, 2020

SiennaHeron11

No its not like that you're amazing don't give them chance to pity you.....I was like you to but I've just ignored them and make my own world.....people like those only wants you for their benefits just help them with their need but show them that you're fine and amazing without them.

Nov 17, 2020

GrandCrane35

Pls be ma friend, i need someone like you

Nov 17, 2020

Anonymous

Would u b my friend please cuz same thing new enem eyegetemege yalew

Nov 17, 2020

NavyPenguin64

my friends need me when there tech fails and need a fixing keza wechi beka

Nov 16, 2020

BlueBoar21

261

It's probably the quarantine messing with your mind. For example I rarely ever talk with my friends. I don't call them, they don't call me. But when we finally do meet, or In some way talk, we go back to how we were. But if I have a particularly bad problem and want to talk, they're there for me and I for them. So, my point is don't worry. The best frienships are like yhat

Nov 16, 2020

Elroy

1346

Ayzosh ehite ahun eko abzagnaw sew endeza nw le tikimu nw mifelgsh demo eko ayafrum siteyiqu yaskemetut yale nw mimeslachew gn ehen asibi anch yeteleyesh mehonshn you are a real person they are all fakes demo egziabher bedenb kef argo endemikeflsh amnalew

Nov 16, 2020

ZestyHare30

Girll be my friend please🥺🥺🥺

Nov 16, 2020

Okay

I really get u... then be indifferent to them..dont give a shit to those kinda ppl who doesnt care abt u. it could be hard but it comes through time....i dont know why but nowadays many ppl are like.....but i can assure u that there are still good ones out there! So dont dont ever give up on friendship .....and try notice and appreciate ppl around u who really care abt u rather than trying to impress those who dont eshi

Nov 16, 2020

Anonymous

Yea 😂 . Let me tell you ma story . My friend got into trouble at school and i beat the guy up that i he was in trouble with then he like did shit to take the fault at the principal office . Then after that i decided to do no shit what so ever to help any one

Nov 16, 2020

Anonymous

If want a new friend we can be friends let's try 😊

Nov 16, 2020

GrandStoat90

100

Am kinda guy who love longer talks with so different type of topic with a girl but am not looking for relationship....i like more of let me share u this and that friendship and i love being there for her at any time Am sorry for your friends....continue being there friend tho and am sure so many ppls will be willing to be your friends here so....good luck

Nov 16, 2020

TopazChimp59

1849.5

We can be friends if you want and if we click.

Nov 16, 2020

Anonymous

This is me no friends but let me tell you what I learned just clear your bad thinking's about friendship and just start over but don't have friends that are jealous and mean to others cause they will push you to be like them and they will treat you like they treat others and one tip: don't tell all your secrets set a boundary cause most aren't truthful.

Nov 16, 2020

Amanda

1828

I'm sorry to hear that. Now a days friendship & love is becoming a give & take thing. You are an amazing friend I can see from what you wrote. But pls set boundaries for the seek of your self. No one will respect you unless you have a limitation in everything. You need to sacrifice for friends who truly respects & cares for you. Just take care yourself that doesn't make you a selfish person. Put yourself first without hurting others! #respectfortruefriendship

Nov 16, 2020

Helga

"Some of my friends treat me like a god..they look for me only when they need me." Take ur time chosing the people around u. Then and only then is when u have to be vulnerable in any way People tend to take advantage of that beautiful side...they take it for granted Speak up when u don't like how it's going..endenegerew yefelegal andandu sew...they may not even realize they're hurting u like this But if they ain't sorry..ditch their asses They don't deserve you.🙌

Nov 16, 2020

Anonymous

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Nov 16, 2020

JollyPuma55

Ik i get it and ik how u feel gn kemer dont think that u aren't destined to enjoy friendship mnamn coz thats not true i used to think that way dero am i not cool enough for them mnamn el neber gn mn endareku takialesh rakekuachew beserat i started to avoid them mnamn keza they came to me they told me that they need me mnamn ena now we r good friends sometime ppl dont know ur value eskalasayeshachew deres they think like they own u

Nov 16, 2020

Zenbebush

i mean, i think it is kind of hard to find that kind of friend while you are a girl, if you were a men or male , you will enjoy it so cheer up, it is normal for you guys

Nov 16, 2020

Ataraxia

Stay kind....it will pay u back but learn to be independent and strong .....don't be sad and doubt urself because of people......and u will have friends that truly deserve you ...trust me on this

Nov 16, 2020

Chemlaka

905

Ayzon baby

Nov 16, 2020

Yoda

135

You said you don't do small talks, you are introvert so you don't talk much, meaning you are SCARY. I don't think people come to you for emotional support because of your own behavior. You are scaring them away. You say you'd do anything for them, do the small talks. You have no idea how important they are. I know people are bad these days but try to figure out what's wrong with yourself before blaming them. I'm not gonna offer you friendship because introverts scare the shit out of me. Like, what the hell are we gonna talk about... Anyways, there are still real friends, real love, real people... Don't give up on everyone

Nov 16, 2020

Rebel

427

If you need a true friend who will be there for you through your ups and downs I'm here you can ask for my user name

Nov 16, 2020

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