I am 21 and my parents (especially my mom ) controls everything I mean everything in my life . I am not a little girl and I am tired of being miss perfect . I want to live my life in my own way , in my own terms and rules . This is my life not hers. I want to work but I can't because she doesn't want me to work ... why ? Has anybody been through this situation ? How did you get your freedom? Please admins approve this
Nov 16, 2020You're 21+ and need your mom's permission to go out lmaooooometoo.
Nov 16, 202021 amet malet telek sew nesh... gen esua anchi destega endatehogi wey kelelaw zek belesh endetnori felga aydelem ejeg betam eregetega nege demom lemen belseh teyikiat eski Gen anchi hasabesh weto mezenanat, keguadegochesh gar chill mareg(enesu wetew lemen ene kerehu aynet semet eyetesmash kehone)... semige ehete weto bemezenanat migegew desta gizeyawi ena just focus on your goal beza lay set nesh mebelashetem ale gen hulum nger lebego nw Sera enkuan endesera atfelegem laleshew be ergata ena ende telek sew awariyat keza wechi ebet west yemetasayiw weta yale act kale eraseshen asetkakey keza hulum nger yestekakelal Gen hulem bihon be benatesh kuteter atenadegi ateferi.... mechem bihon nw melesh ena demo eraseshen keleloch sewoch gar atawedaderi beteley demo ke guadegochesh gar.... keza wechi weta yale nger ataregi, atenadejbat.... Balemewetash ande ken eraseshen telek bota deresehsh tagegiwalesh enam enateshenm tamesegetalesh Enem ebet betam nw mikotatateruge gen lemen beye alawekem mekniatum wechiwen lemayet bezuriyaye yaluten guadegochen mayet beki nw wetew menem alagegehum susega, techi honu, maregez, masewered, yale edemeyachew weldew bechachewen be leje taserew eyenoru nw enji menem yeteleye life alagegubetem
Nov 16, 2020Look ur a fucking adult, work on your mindset move the fuck out of her house start your own life I am not saying get married don't get married until ur financially and mentally stable move the fuck out dont ask for help don't go back their just move out start working hustling
Nov 16, 2020Lol ezi yalshwn neger esuan beyat endeza...ask her exactly what u asked here
Nov 16, 2020I can help
Nov 16, 2020Wow! that is very different from my situation, my parents don't control me, that even it piss me off ...nvm but about you brother you are in real deep shit, can you or did you have the capacity to rent a house, even a small, that might be the only way to gain your freedom, caz her home her rules tuo what she is doing right now is too much and you are right, it is your life, you decides.
Nov 16, 2020Well as long as you are under their roof it's their rules, and just so you know it's out of love
Nov 16, 2020I have been there too gn we talked about it alot of times and i think she understood that i have grown up when i moved out
Nov 16, 2020Owww you're gonna blast 🤯💥
Nov 16, 2020It could be out of love,...my advise to make things more better is that. work on ur potential (improve ur skills), find a good friend who u can trust and share ideas with, belive in God and hope for a better future.
Nov 16, 2020I am also 21 and they still control me i don't know what to do either... But balfo i really make my self clear... I told my mom that am not a kid n i can control my self she can't decide for me....
Nov 16, 2020Yes lord I did, and I know how much you ache about it. About z work, If ur dad is cool and he's on ur side, talk to him and he'll convince her or you can find someone she adores to convince her. On my case it was her younger sister I got my freedom slightly when I joined college. Not complete freedom or atleast like the one a 20 year old women should hv esunem my aunt eyemekerechilegn minamn minamn I feel u girl and just hold on, no matter what eleh west endategebi
Nov 16, 2020bchegna lij nesh?
Nov 16, 2020Wend or set?
Nov 16, 2020I tot she said 'i amnot a lil girl'
Nov 16, 2020My advice look for work , and leave
Nov 16, 2020Why are you shouting on us
Nov 16, 2020Im 22 ena lk endanchi negn... gn alamarrm... Meches ur mom anchin lemegudat or destashin lemasatat adelem mtkotateresh... ye fkrua bzat ena ye tnkakewa bzat nw... ena z negatuve thoughts awchina mn yahl fkr endalat asbi... Freedom kesetechish behuala "mnale enate ende dro betekotaterechign" mil smet wust endatgebim tetenkeki...
Nov 16, 2020I am a dude and my dad is like your mom we always disagree with every thing then I decide to say nothing in home when ever he talks I shot up then my family begin to worry I was acting like a serious man then my dad stop talking like that and I can come home late as I like but I am 20
Nov 16, 2020Ur not the only one It's mostly out of fear that something bad might happen to u Some parents are strong enough to suck it up..trust u and let u go and be there for u for whatever happens next Others don't even want to go down that road..only thinking of all the possible things that could go wrong So just tell her what u want..and MAKE COMPROMISES. If there is a curfew, abide..if it's necessary and she sometimes wants u to cancel ur plans then do so (a mother's instinct is spot on) Ene becha endalkut kehone kalsh am sure she wouldn't like it... Make peace with her..have a good time with her while u still can Ur independence endehone aykerem..only a matter of time enji🤷♀
Nov 16, 2020Ive been there boo try showing her that uve grown my mom was the strict like crazy I wasn't even alowed to go anywhere without my mom and really hated that feeling you should talk to her about things openly and she will know dear don't try to argue or something it's gonna make it worst
Nov 16, 2020I get my freedom when I realize everything she do she do it for my sake. Love ur mom when have the chance girl.you ain't white stop tripping
Nov 16, 2020Eyewlesh, ahun yetenagershwn neger degmesh eswan ngeryat, kalteweyayeshbet mnm berasu emifeter lewt yelem
Nov 16, 2020Follow what your mom's says to you. Tamesegnatalesh. Trust me
Nov 16, 2020Tell her face to face that u don't want to be possed controlled or whatever. I am 16 soon 17 but they don't control everything...coz they know what I am up to. Ende u r 21 for Christ's sake. .face her. Beka ngeriat...
Nov 16, 2020Egna keyet enakilishalen
Nov 16, 2020If you are a Christian, you have to respect each and each rules and regulations ordered by your family. They do all that for the sake your life. Then come to discuss each other and make the way free.
Nov 16, 2020