Evloutinary trait... girls hate sudden change so...it's tricky to go from friend to lover. got me? Feed her the idea slowly... Stop the nonsense joke you doing 24-7 and start serious chats and flirt in a vague way 1st ...compliment her like "your man is so lucky.'' Talk about the future, how u wana have a good family and career, (they do care abt that.) Lastly get ready for the get it or lose it... and make it lowkey obvious you into her play a TorD and d say smtn like "if u ever had the chance would u date me?, i do obviously"