The only problem here is not about being a virgin or not. The only problem is "you" first of all its not your issue If someone considers themselfs a virgin or not after doing all that fun stuff. And secondly why would you even want to be a virgin its like so disgusting. And thirdly never question others for what they believe in. I feel like u wanna join in the fun but somehow your scared and when someone else does it your just angry and resentful cause you ...yourself can't do it. So don't do that to your self. If you wanna get your pussy licked go ahead it's fun it's beautiful. But only if you want to. But never really judge those around you cause they can do some things you never can. And Idk why I came across two women were somehow proud to be virgins and I almost barfed. Idk maybe this is an Ethiopian thing and yea we are kinda backward but I didn't judge I simply went my way. So your free do whatever you want. And for your question yea some girls do that cause your actually a virgin unless someone penetrates your pussy and you lose your hymen. Just saying .