First thing you have to know is your in Ethiopia. There are no guidelines or principles when it comes to relationships. All that we have is gotten from oral tradition, and norms from our own social structure. And since our social structure condemns any kind of opossite sex relationships there isn't really any particular thing anyone requires. Now when ur comes to women especially this generation's women. All that they know is basied on movies. And if its nor movies its There friends. They know nothing about what a relationship is or what they want. They just run about everything as they see on Television and on cheesy TV shows. So most girl is looking for that one person who us suppose to be there "soul mate" Or whatever. One who can share in there happiness and sadness or whatever it is they are into. What you need to do is that know that every girl is never themselves around you especially if your a boy ... Girls don't quite particularly know what they want they just want you to act the part and look the part and they will fall for you simple as that. I'm not saying women are simpletons I'm just saying this generation's Ethiopian women are. They have let foreign western media dictate many things for them and the worst part is they don't even know it. So first stop caring about what "girls" want and ask the important question which is "What do I want" then just act it out.... Dress nice Look good. Act like someone you aren't just to get there attention and another feature women can't risist is .... Always be around them but make them believe that you only want friendship and nothing more. That will drive any women insane. Cause she will be asking the question " why isn't he interested in me in a romantic way?" "Is there something wrong with me" and no matter who she will want you. Cause women want to be the ones to dictate any relationship, for example if your friends she wants to be the one to "Cheak you" tell you that she just wants a Friend and denying you and refusing you. Cause its just how women are it makes them feel good abiut themselfs. It also increases thier confidence. Cause women lack confidence naturally. Plus they worry abiut everything and compare themselfs to every other girl they see. Being a women will probably be the most hardest thing in this world. They are in a constant struggle. And if you know these things I tell you there is no women you can't have. But please don't misuse this information.