Why do girls make a big deal about having sex. I can understand the whole religious wait till your married thing but it's usually not that..mostly iys because they subject themselves to messed up societal standards. So can any of you girls give me a rational explantion as to why it's a big deal?
Oct 29, 2019We dont subject ourselves to it, it is imposed upon us from birth! That aside, the reason doesn't have to be rational, emotional and religious reasons are just as valid, you dont need to accept or agree with these reasons. You and everyone else should respect it though.
Oct 29, 2019Look ,the difference between men and women is that women get emotionally attached faster in relationships. Relationships are made of two things ,friendship and physical intimacy men value the sexual intimacy more which makes them seem addicted to sex and most of them tend to fall for the girl after passing this intimate stage.And we don't blame them for that because it's how they're programmed. However ,women being sensetive and giving value for commitment doesn't have to make them seem neurotic and clingy as well. After all, we all are designed to survive while living under the consensus of society and in our society ...virginity has value and even if we want to defy it, we still want to feel secure with that person before letting him fuck us. Did that answer ur question ?
Oct 29, 2019its not a big deal for us girls it depends from the guy, i met this sexy guy from habesha_takeover he almost won every pic challange and we texted for a week and we met up and i fell in love with hem the time i met him and i was ready to do anything not to loose him we watched a movie and he took me to a club where we made out after that we rent a room and boom i lost my virginity, i didnt regret it even if we didnt have a long lasting relationship, he just knew what he was doing and that was just enough for me even tho i never tought id loose my virginity before marrige this guy knew the way trough my heart
Oct 29, 2019It's not about religion or society, it's about dignity n respect...I personally think if a guy truly loves his girl he don't bother for z pussy plus what's z problem about having sex after marriage ee??🤔.....after ol she's ol urs...hope one day u gonna be a daddy n have kid then ur daughter slept with her boyfriend n got pregnant or maybe not....will u accept z fact? 🤔🤔🤔
Oct 29, 2019'dont bother for z pussy' sex is part of a healthy relationship if its consuntual. And there is nothing wrong with a guy wanting sex. it's the insecurity of the girl that makes her think he only wants her body. but that's the thing he does.. sex is a physical act and even she wants his body as well. No matter how movies romanticize it or tatoo this concept of 'the one' in our heads. sex is just sex..it can be somthing more when you have intimate knowlage of the other. But my problem is why girls get all defensive and offended when a dude wants to fuck. and some guys only want that and that's okay too. i'd rather be stright up with my intentions than play games. and i suggest yall do too. it's very naive to say that if he truly loves her he should wait. those two have nothing to do with each other. Respeceting the values of your partner however does. my issue is with the execpctation that if the guys does want her then he shouldnt want to fuck her or ask for it
Oct 29, 2019You know what z problem is... z same people that accuse us of making a big deal out of sex, are z same people who call girls a whore and want her wife to be a virgin and zer daughter to b married a virgin.....yesss society plays a big role in the way zey cast women based on her sexual life but zer is also z part zat we have seen a lot of girls being betrayed by someone who zey loved after having sex so we would be a fool to just open up our legs for z next guy zat flirts wiz us.....plus some of us just want to keep z sanctity of a sacred marriage 🤷♀ By: Anonymous a few seconds ago
Oct 29, 2019idk why i bother repling to you but since i am bored rn what the heck. anyhoo resortin to personal attacks only says a lot about you..i was only proposing a question to create a discussion..so if you arent going to offer any insights please shut the fuck up
Oct 29, 2019Because you guys are always thinking about having sex and you left after you get what you want
Oct 29, 2019Ur question was z so shit .......z probelem its u boys all u think is abt sex which is not ryt, ya in ur angle sex is easy cuz after smt bad happens ur life still continue but we girls mn enhonalen after a shit happen our life will be messed up and all this affect our life style maybe our life will stop u nvr know wat happen there might be a girl who killed herself b/c of unaccepted sex belive me z boy might be still alive like ntn happen seketel le girls kibir wanaw new enkwan sex mareg aydelem sex enareg belo meteyek rasu its disrespect btmmm and pls try to think before asking so dum question. No offense😊
Oct 29, 2019Slut shaming, pregnancy, trust issues, virginity ....
Oct 29, 2019Whether you believe it or not that girl doesn't give a shit about you to get physical. She never loved u that much in the first place😂😁😂🤣.
Oct 29, 2019Answer me this how would you feel the girl you are in love with tells you that she has slept with so many guys ? How would you feel about her honest opinion ?
Oct 29, 2019Because y'all players and when there is a next guy....he'll ask r u a v...n then she'll say no and boom she's seen as a slut....its bc how messed up our society is n there's her parents which see it as a pride (which it is)...imagine how special ud be if she lose it for u!!
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Oct 29, 2019Ur question is invalid
Oct 29, 2019and why is that?
Oct 29, 2019I am not blind to the socail biases that exist out there. But how do you expect things to change if you guys yourselves dont start to live by diffrent values and teach your children those. it's foolish to want us to be the ones responisible for change. And some might not be able to take the added presure that comes with having diffrent values than the norm..such as beliving in the sexual libration of a female..yet what they can do is stop holding grudges or sterotyping guys and forcing them to play with these old rules
Oct 29, 2019Didn't say they werent valid just that i wanted to understand them. Yall are okay with stereotyping guys as players or only after sex and yet you expect us to respect arbitrary reasons. Make us see your point of view and maybe girls wonts have to worry if their man will leave after they sleep togther.
Oct 29, 2019Those type of girls are okay with the patriarchy. They subjugate themselves to their "future husbands"🧕
Oct 29, 2019Well its abut self respect......idgf abut wat z society tnks endawm most ppl lik a non virgin gnnnn i belive zat am special n i choose who gets in n who doesnt n i havnt found him yet🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀.......plus i hate being naked n watching ppl naked sooo i need smn who makes me comfy
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