Hey😜😜😜 So i am a very obident daughter. I literally do everything…

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Hey😜😜😜 So i am a very obident daughter. I literally do everything my parents tell me😒.i am just unable to say no to them, don't get me wrong i don't think it is a bad thing but sometimes i think it is killing my confidence to decide on things myself or tell them what i really feel.😖..i am not allowed to go out with my friends or even talk to one on the phone...even when i want to do smtn so badly, i wouldn't if they say no🙁...i am in my tewenties i should be able to decide on things right ?but i can't ...so pls tell me how to get out of this? How can i be able to talk to them abt what i want and what i feel?

Oct 27, 2020

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Abe

Guess what I got my twin

Oct 28, 2020

ChartreuseViper49

Your fam do this because of they care too much for you, they wanna protect you. You maybe 20s or 30s whatever age, you're still daughter of your parent. I'm not saying family is 100% perfect, but they at least got much experience with life. If you think that's too much care, and feel like you're in penitentiary, then you should talk them openly and freely. Good luck, and "Family First" just put on your mind.

Oct 28, 2020

ShadowLynx43

I agree with u! I mean they think about u...that's why they want to protect u! My families are like that too and I was confused why they care this much for me but after a while I understand their reason! My friends who allowed to go out side are going to bad way of life even my friends! And also excess phone conversations aren't that much important! So you will see the benefits of their protection soon!❤️

Oct 28, 2020

EmeraldPike22

290

Financial independence

Oct 28, 2020

Backspace

696

How old are you ? Your age matter yadrgal eko

Oct 28, 2020

Kezira

277

Are you sure they are still doing this malet make sure u are not the one doing it coz they were strict once and know u adapted it and feel like they are still doing it ..but if not try these. So first try doing something that can make them know ur an adult and able to deal with your life in general Step by step not በአንዴ If this didn't work talk to them abt it politely and make them understand

Oct 28, 2020

Kyrie

161

Yea this ones right First make sure if they are still hard on u

Oct 28, 2020

2moreon

2674

You are right u got to act by yourself confidently. But you have to understand the good intentions of your family control. Youngdom causes some dumb actions that we regret. Family wantsto protect you from fake friends, inappropriate r/nsp and hurt breaks. If you are confident about your choice and decision u could do them by still being obedient but adding a little bit of 'law bending'.

Oct 28, 2020

Alfe

105

I feel u ... I was very obidient. u can't fight them cause they r ur parents so just try to reason with them for a while... if they try to force their decision on u then u hv to say NO ..ik its hadr gn u need to standup for urself ..just start with small decisions to say no in time they'll get used to it

Oct 28, 2020

KalZ

First i apperciate u decide to stand for ur self n ur life , allthogh do it step by step u don wanna upset ur family suddenly

Oct 28, 2020

Asmegeans

1082.5

Show them through your action that you are mature enough. Talk peoples bad behavior in front of them. Like. Dad, do you know that girl, she just won't stop going out with boys. Jesus.

Oct 28, 2020

BlushHorse63

1124

your parents always do their best to make your life better . so if you discuss about it with your parents. it is better

Oct 28, 2020

Easiest

442.5

You should be obedient always for the good, but one prob I saw is you should let them know your problems, tell them your thoughts, decisions then ask them their advices.input their advice also from your friends on decisions you make always. I love and admire you for being like this to your family,parents! Once you are married let say range of 24-30 tell them with politeness and respect that they will not decide what will happen with your husband so you should start small ...like geting to choose, know friends, edu,food, Uv. You must train decisions by doing them in real life not your parents making them for you and your husband! 😊 Show them practically in life your decisions turnout well for you & them! Best luck 🤞🍀 Stay well ☺️.🙏🏿

Oct 28, 2020

WhiteHare87

Thanks God endne aynetm ale leka am 22 gn endanchiw negn

Oct 28, 2020

Han

193

Yhone ngr argh asedsetena keza ahun yhen flgalhu bel aykelkelum beye asebalhu😏

Oct 28, 2020

VioletPerch92

If you said no ,what would they do? I think your age is above to physical punishment. If they prohibit u, just sneak out, that could show them how much you need it.

Oct 28, 2020

Claimyours

531

Trust me it's a bad thing its going to affect your relations, your friendship and your self esteem even yerashin life betjemri rasu you will look someone to be depended on mekenyatum you didn't develop the skills to do things by you so before you run out of time try to change it ... and mareg metefelgiewn nger sinor just go out there and do it don't ask permission hulunm negr eshi atebyi matefelgiew kehon embi malet reasonable honesh embi malet even Ethiopian movies alu eko similar with your type of situation demo yensu tefate bicha adelm anchi zim belesh eshi malet aselmdeshachew new demo ke beteseb wechi yalew sew eko bezi baheriysh the will take advantage on you so demo embi malet betejemri obedient adelshim malet adelm .

Oct 28, 2020

Godson

126

I am the same like u in the Male version 😁 most fams wanna to protect their child it is not fr bad it is since they love more but fr us may be very hard to go in there way always cuz their is different generations what they pass nd what we r so u have to tell frankly what u really wanna to be just show them what ur friends do or if u frighten them do ur things secretly until u became mature egnogh to tell them what really u want anyways don't think that u r the only obedient child fr ur fam there r millions live in ur way think always fams do fr ur best nd wellbeingness that is the reality

Oct 28, 2020

absurd

278

you nees not talk to them.... My fam is the same with yours, but i do the things i want secretely ... Let them live in thier fantasys(which is --they think you are going to live a good life beause of them--) ..let them believe that, don't take away their Pride about them having A Good Child. Just do what you need to do. It's your life not theirs. If you are ill tomorrow, they won't sgare your real pain. If you die they will probably forget you. The second alternatice is be Different. Tell them to go fuck them selves(politelt you know😁).. And live your life.

Oct 28, 2020

NobleDingo13

317

Family talk can solve it...after dinner or so while u all are together take a COURAGE and speak up what's on ur mind. Tell them that their overprotectiveness is killin ur confidence . Say No when u don't want to do it but with reason .and of all tell them to give u a space and make ur own decisions

Oct 28, 2020

LavenderCobra40

Ere ema gua beyebachew ye Ethiopia family ayenefex bezi bezi raseshen kalawexash discussion mnamn ayeseram

Oct 28, 2020

Anonymous

To be honest after watching my friends family and how they let them do everything they want,i didn't think there would be so many people in my situation....thank you everyone😄

Oct 28, 2020

Anonymous

make them believe in u

Oct 28, 2020

Martian

I've been dealing with the same thing myself.. But out of some experience, the way you approach and share some thoughts with your fam matters.. the things you say and the things you neglect within that convo.. anyways.. If you have the freedom to chat and have fun while sharimg some thoughts with your parents.. Then you could actually talk tp them on some minor things like getting out with local friends for some small time and just some settling actions that you thinl would make them say yes.. Them you could build your questions based on those answers.. If they say No to everything you ask... that's so tough I guess

Oct 28, 2020

wwwcom

Same here...but i told them about it

Oct 28, 2020

WeGat

487

20? Why ain't u married yet?

Oct 28, 2020

Anonymous

You're so fucking Funny you know that right . They R Not letting you go because you're not showing them you hit buberty .

Oct 28, 2020

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