So I was in rship with a dude for 2 yrs. I loved and still love him…

CoralZebra42

180

Honey get lost and move on before you get hurt more , i felt u cuz i was in the exact same spot as u 😢😭 but i was too late , its been like 7 years since i broke up but still cry to this day , i got over him but still cry in anger and regret , his memories didnt leave me and left me empty. Tho im in relation with a great man who loves me so much for 5 years now , my heartt has turned to stone , i rarly feel the sparkle of love. I hope ur story will be a lot different

Oct 29, 2020

BlushHorse63

1124

👍

Oct 29, 2020

TealKoala91

247

He doesn't care don't be with him ever

Oct 29, 2020

Claimyours

531

the reason why he did give you enough time is because he is an addict ... and you don't need to invest your emotions to someone who doesn't value them .. ena demo in relation little things ensu they matter betam and yes you shouldn't feel lonely if you have a friend. No you are not being emotional a relation should be 50 -50 enji anchi bicha fight metaregi kehon le relationu he is not the one for you and if you want to move on cutoff everything that connects you with him like (pictures songs , chats ,his phone the things he gave you menamn ) probably you won't do it gin if you want to move on that's the way and focus on your self and give your self time to heal and trust me endanchi miyaseb sew rare liyawm bezi gize please don't change ..its a matter of time enji you will me a guy who you can depend on and care about how your day went and give you the attention and the love you deserve .You are the type of girl some guys pray for and don't lose hope stay strong 😊

Oct 29, 2020

Kezira

277

Unfortunately ☹️ I was kinda like that guy(girl version) so it may seems like we don't care and tbh we don't, some how, but deeep inside after things are over we regret .. I personally think u should move on and do really better .. show him that u don't rly care anymore .after that ,it will be ur decision to get back with him if he came back apologizing .. (I adivise u to not get back with him )

Oct 29, 2020

KeyboardWarrior

77

A male version of u, u will be a perfect match😂

Oct 29, 2020

Backspace

696

Be strong .give time for your self don't be with him .try to make your self busy for some time's , enjoy your own moment try be strong.

Oct 29, 2020

Wg

280

Set the standards from the beginning. Even if you really want to see him, it’s good to say no sometimes. If you’re always available, he’ll start taking you for granted. The harder to get you are at the start, the more he will appreciate you later on. This is called ‘compensation’, a basic psychological principle. Don't get back to him soon wait until he respond or leave him completely b/c it seems he don't like u.

Oct 29, 2020

PM

98

There's nothing worse than being with someone that makes u feel more lonely:: Life goes on...

Oct 30, 2020

CyanMink26

8

I was in the same situation like you too.this might sound rough gn when a guy treats you like that believe him.i know it's hard.no one deserves to be treated like that.u deserve better.

Oct 29, 2020

Latte

1192

i'm sorry but you dont seem happy. relationships are not meant to be a source of sorrow and hurt but rather a source of pleasure, love, and joy. you deserve nothing less of these. and if your partner cant give you that, even though you pour everything you have in to it and him, i think you should start taking care of yourself more. you deserve way much better Girl. dont ever doubt that. take baby steps to move, doesnt happen overnight. one thing i find very helpful is self love and self care. by loving yourself and caring for yourself build confidence, self esteem and the stamina you need to through any hard times of your life. then you'd be able enjoy life on your own and not let anyone jeopardize it. but mostly give it time. time heals all. Good luck and Go rock the world

Oct 29, 2020

ProudParrot15

67

I think u should move on ymr beflgesh ko yalshachwen ngeroch hula yareg nber actionochu lanchi mnm ged endlelew nw meymslut soo kezi belay megodat kalflgesh just move on adwylet txtem atlaki mnm yahel bekbdesh rasshen mekotater nw anchim kalsu menor endmachyi kalasayshew kezi belay nw megodash anyways gud luck

Oct 29, 2020

WhiteHare87

91

Honey am in love too and i have bf but he didn't do the thing u mentioned...... when u r in love u just want that person to be with u when talk sleep cry eat in every situation but he didnt . Well i think be mehaklachu melmamd enji fiker yelm malet anchi betojiwm esu lemdosh enji afkrosh ayhonm .....just give him time to think ..if he calls because hi miss u maybe he is in love if he didn't my Dear just move ur way forget him .i know it is hard gn you can do it esu ga honesh kemtgojiw aybeltm

Oct 29, 2020

2moreon

2674

You are at good age to take pain as a next move and get over it. cuz as he is neglecting ur attention, trying to be with him hurts more than u are thinking him now.i think he has got bored on something and wants to find another way. U can give him one chance to discuss to what has happened lately and ask "should we continue or abort the r/nsp cuz you are not acting as those day back in love".

Oct 29, 2020

Fano

-33

ሲያፈቅሩችሁ መከራ ፡ ጣል ጣል ስትደረጉ መከራ 😂😂 wtf

Oct 29, 2020

Flower

393

Sejmer you should be dependent on anything or an anyone to feel happy..... Dude like that are ever where you should just move on with your life yehen endea temehert wesejew trust me......if it's you who is willing to sacrifice everything for the relationship your the one whose gonna get hurt move on with your life take a break you can do it

Oct 29, 2020

Abitata

292

Enem ba kerbu nw ka g.f gar yetetalhute Sela esu atesbi leterashiw kafelgash message menamn delchi Keza baterashiwm sera seri feta beya😁 Ka 1 wer behola ykrta belo yemelsal Yane 🖕🦶 bela teyewalsh

Oct 29, 2020

Trewq

-3

Ask for my identity

Oct 29, 2020

Rozi

257

Move on he's not worth it let go every load of weight that keeps you connected with him distract yourself by what you can do and what u love worship yourself a little bit...say like my ex don't desrve me tell that to yourself ..

Oct 29, 2020

AmberBoar99

-14

If he dosen't love u just move on the symptoms are clear don't hurt ur self and focus on ur family and friends they love u and care about u and find another boyfriend that is easy I am here for example u can be with if u want username is aggressiveworld

Oct 29, 2020

Anonymous

OP

Are You cute.. ..drop your user name esti

Nov 02, 2020

Marakiye

6948.5

💃የከንቲባው ልጅ 🕺 : ምዕራፍ ፫/3 ❤️ ክፍል ፳፱/29 ከአንዱ ምግብ ቤት ገብተን ምሳ ከበላን በዋላ "ፍቅር ግን ለአንተ ምንድነው...?" አለችኝ የከንቲባው ልጅ በልጅቷ የቅድሙ መልስ እንደኔው ተገርማ ። 'እርግጠኛ ነኝ ሁላችንም ብያንስ አንድ ጊዜ አፍቅረናል ። እንደውም አብዛኞቻችን የፍቅርን ትርጉም ሳናውቅ ነው ያፈቀርነው ። anyways ፍቅር ግን ለኔ ...! አንድ ወንድና ሴት ተፈላልገው የሚመሰርቱት ግኑኝነት ...? ፡ እሱ ነው ፍቅር ...? ፡ አይመስለኝም ። እስቲ ወይ የራስሽን ወይንም ደግሞ የጓደኛሽን የፍቅር ታሪክ ለትንሽ ደቂቃ አስቢው ። እያሰብሽው እንደሆነ ተስፋ አለኝ ። እርግጠኛ ሆኜ የምነግርሽ እራሳችንን ወደን እንጂ ሰውን አፍቅረን አናውቅም ። እንዴት...? ለምትዪኝ :- በመጀመሪያ ወንድ ከሆነ አንዲት ሴትን ፡ ሴት ከሆነች ደግሞ የሆነ ወንድ ፡ በሆነ አጋጣሚ ያገኛሉ ። የሆነ ነገሯ ይማርከዋል ፡ #90% መልኳ ፣ አካሄድ ፣ አለባበስ ፣ አነጋገር ፣ ወዘተ ። ይተዋወቃሉ ፡ ሊግባቡም ላይግባቡም ይችላሉ ። ጉዳዩ እሱ አይደለም ። ከጥቂት ቀናት በዋላ ፡ ካላገኘዋት ፣ እጄ ካላስገባዋት ፣ የኔ ካልሆነች ፣ ህይወቴ ካለሷ ባዶ ነው ፣ ወዘተ ማለት ይጀምራል ። እዚህ ጋር ልብ በይ እንግዲህ ። አነዚህን ነገሮች እያለ ያለው ለልጅቷ አስቦና ተጨንቆ አይደለም ፡ ለራሱ ፍላጎት እንጂ ። ስለናፈቀችው ፣ ደስ ስላለችው ፣ ስለምታምር ፣ ከሷ ጋር ከሆነ ደስተኛ እሆናለሁ ብሎ ስለሚያስብ ፣ ባጠቃላይ ልጅቷ ትሆነኛለች ብሎ እንጂ ፡ ለልጅቷ እሆናታለው ፣ ብሎ አይደለም ። አስተውይ ፡ መጀመሪያ ላይ አፈቀርኳት ብሎ ሲያወራ የሱ ህይወት ካለሷ ባዶ ሆኖ ስለተሰማው እንጂ የሷ ህይወት አሳስቦት አይደለም ። የሱ ጭንቀት እንጂ የሷ ፍላጎት አልታየውም ፤ አያውቅምም ። በቃ በዛ ሰዓት እሱ የሚፈልገው ነገር ቢኖር ልጅቷ የሱ እንድትሆን ነው ። የሱ ብቻ ። እሷ እንኳን የሌላ ሰው ሆና ማየቱ ይቅርና ሰላም እንኳን ቢሏት ካልገደልኳቸው ሊልም ይችላል ። እሷን ከራሱ ውጪ ከሌላ ሰው ጋር ለሴኮንድ እንኳን ማሰብ አይፈልግም ። እሷ አልፈልግህም ብትለው እንኳን በግድ ካልሆንሽ የሚል ጉድ ውስጥም ሊገባ ይችላል ። አስቢ ይሄን ሁሉ እያደረገ ያለው ለራሱ ሲል ነው ። ይሄንን ነው እንግዲህ ፍቅር ብለን የጠራነው ። እመኚኝ ግን ከዚህ ሰው በላይ እራስ ወዳድ ሰው በምድር ላይ የለም ። የፍቅር ትርጉም ግን ይህ አልነበረም ። ፍቅር ከራስ አልፎ ለሰዎች ሁሉ መኖርና መሞት ነው ። ቢተያዩም ባይተያዩም ፣ ብታምርም ባታምርም ፣ ለሱ ህይወት አስፈላጊ ሆነች አልሆነች ፣ እውነተኛ ልብ ካለው ያኔ የእውነት ፍቅር ከልቡ ይገባል ። በአይኑ ሳይሆን በልቡ ማየት ሲጀምር እሱ ሳይፈልገው ቤቱ ድረስ መጥቶለት ደጁን ያንኳኳል ። አፍቃሪ መሆን ከፈለገ ከልቧ ውጪ ምኗንም ሳያይ ፣ ምንም ሳታደርግለት ፣ ብትበድለው ብትክሰው ፣ ለሱ ሆነች አልሆነች ፣ ባጠቃላይ የሷ ነገር አሳስቦት እንጂ የሱ ጎዶሎነት ተሰምቶት አይውደድ ። ለጎዶሎው ብሎ ካፈቀረ አንድ ቀን እንዳልተሟላለት አስቦ ሊተዋት ይችላል ። የሷን ጎዶሎ ሊሞላ ቢሯሯጥ ግን አትራፊ ይሆናል ። ቅዱሱ መፅሐፍም "ከሚቀበል ይልቅ የሚሰጥ ብፁዕ ነው" አይደል የሚለው ። ክርስቶስስ ከሰማይ ላይ ወርዶ የሰውን ስጋ የለበሰው ለራሱ ጥቅም ይመስልሻል ...? ፍቅር መጠቀም ሳይሆን መጥቀም ነው ። እውነተኛ አፍቃሪ በነገሮች ሁሉ ቅድምያ ለራሱ ሳይሆን ለሌላ ሰው ሰጥቶ የሚጠቅም እንጂ የራሱን ችግር ለማሸነፍ ብሎ በሌሎች የሚጠቀም አይደለም' ። ©ከወደዱት ክፍል ፴/30 ይቀጥላል ። Join us... ✦✺ @Minteno ✺✦ ✦✺ @Minteno ✺✦ By: Anonymous 🎖 359 rep a few seconds ago

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