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I am a teenager and i daydream a lot about having a boyfriend. I zone out in the car, in the classroom, while walking .... Is it normal? Is it unhealthy? It doesn't affect my grades. Should I stop or continue. I mean it makes me happy when I am in a bad mood or when I am having a bad day. It really comforts me because I am not the type of person to open up to real life people. Is it the hormones if so it is better to daydream than to go out there and get a real boyfriend right. Because it may affect my education plus there are no heartbreaks in the dream world.

Oct 24, 2020

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TopazChimp59

1849.5

This might make you expect a person to be without err and that could affect you in real life situations the reality is that we are all broken and we will hurt eachother but yaw we learn to forgive and pass and love. So stop the daydream and when it's time find the right guy.

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

I am 15 years old

Oct 25, 2020

WarmOsprey81

196

u sound like me😅 and i guess its normal

Oct 25, 2020

Baazkeab

826.5

I want to know the end of this beautiful relationship, keep us posted 😁😂😂😂😂

Oct 25, 2020

MerryBream95

-38

Achi beza mekonen nesh ende

Oct 25, 2020

Bad_Counsellor

348

It's normal i guesses, i day dream about how death will stop me from witnessing our fellow human race achieve being an interstellar species.you know how am not gonna see utopia. It's norma everyone has their own fantasies

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

Busy silalhonsh new and teenage silehonsh new need other thing ,i think it affect your learning (its my opinion and limid new)

Oct 25, 2020

AllahKnowsBest

1302.5

High hormone alert

Oct 25, 2020

AgileFox38

245

እኔን የሆነው ማነው ?😳

Oct 25, 2020

DeepStag13

-33

Being heart broken is very harsh and bad so I say u better stick with the day dream thingy cause if u don't u will end up like me sooo🤷‍♂

Oct 25, 2020

Flower

393

I used to do that too well i used to have imaginary friends too i used to talk and play with them i didn't affect me in anything....

Oct 25, 2020

Waffle_man

833.5

At some point you will have to get a real boyfriend and you will be disappointed as hell if you keep living in the fantasy world. You need to stop doing this

Oct 25, 2020

White_Noise

411.5

If you want one get one, if you don't, don't. Daydreaming is good and all, but doesn't compare to the real stuff.

Oct 25, 2020

TanPanda48

I'm a dude and I was exactly like u for the longest time I'm 19 now and I can 100% tell u as long as it's the ri8 person a relationship is worth it(Ik cuz I'm in a r/n now) and as long as noone has malicious intent all those daydreams don't even come close to the real thing

Oct 25, 2020

SapphireMink13

325

I used to do that when I was a teenager too . 😊

Oct 27, 2020

2moreon

2674

I think daydreaming is what strengthen your quest to true love. You are creating a better place for your heart through dream until u make it happen. I also daydream a lot and it is just better normal.

Oct 26, 2020

Crisp

289

I think most teenagers feel that way cause of some hormonal responses. And you can’t get over it unless you put yourself out there have a bf or something. It won’t just leave like every person In here says it would. It just get worse(unless you like it, It will get better)

Oct 25, 2020

Devaa

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Oct 25, 2020

PREACHER

Ha im like that too and i know it feels good to to have and be who ever u want for a munite but hey why dream just go and get them in real life. u clearly want it so why not stop thinking about it and start acting on it cuz thats the only was to make a memory and be alive.

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

Yaa me too I can relate

Oct 25, 2020

VividLemur75

3931

you are an extreme idealist... till you have your first bf and he breaks your heart ofc.

Oct 25, 2020

Piky

31.5

Its ok sweetie🧚‍♀️ just busy stogni eyeresashw thejalesh🙂ena demo gradeshn mnamn affect miyaregew aymeslegnm Ere sijemer Class sikefet treshiwalsh😹

Oct 25, 2020

LemonPelican10

438

I think u should stop. Behuala lemakom tchegeriyalesh. And you will see affecting your grade later

Oct 25, 2020

Chemlaka

905

If u can control it yeah stop it girl otherwise you'll be in stage that u can't control it and it's bad and am 15too girl hmu😂

Oct 28, 2020

TealShark12

Not judging or anything bcuz I used to do that but in reality that imaginary person is nowhere near n that could make ur standards so high that no man can fit to them and this can ruin ur relationship with guys u meet in the future

Oct 26, 2020

BlueFerret63

51.5

U gotta stop it, Get a boyfriend

Oct 25, 2020

Habesh_Tech

I was like you too and i did get any trouble at all at the first but the thing is its bad really bad if u continue u will not be able to know if u are dreaming or not at some times u even think its real but its not and try watching anime

Oct 25, 2020

Josi33

299.5

Yup, day dreaming keeps me sane too

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

Oct 25, 2020

HardSloth16

I think It will affect u afterward cuz there are some conditions that u can't achieve that dream and that influence so badly .....so try to dream less work more. Many people think they dream big and get it same way but it does not work always

Oct 25, 2020

Jawar

181

I am teenager too i am just like you Me too just day dream to have g.f👱‍♀️ But you should,t think it every day Just when you are in bad mood or some mood......

Oct 25, 2020

TealCheetah25

The job u get nw after education birr hono yemianorish not some boyfriend

Oct 25, 2020

SapphireMink13

325

🙄🙄

Oct 27, 2020

HeroicEagle18

33.5

I'm a woman age 24. I day dream a lot. I'm always day dreaming even while listening to someone. It might affect your grade if you can't focus and if it takes your time. And you won't get someone you are dreaming like. It will hurt you expectations hurt. Demo yewah yadergeshal. But It has helped me to go to sleep early. And thinking is good it will wide your scope. Be wise

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

Nature nw

Oct 25, 2020

TealParrot84

Hw old r u?🧐

Oct 25, 2020

ABCDEDEFU2

246

I am a day dreamer too I would say keep dreaming but don't let it take much of ur time it is a way out for me when I don't wanna face reality and the right one will come u don't have to try to find him

Oct 25, 2020

FastShark85

133

You have what psychologists like to call "maladaptive daydreaming". It's a mental disorder my dearest friend.

Oct 25, 2020

Papilo

155

girl i think you are doing Hallucination thing

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

who can see this answer

Oct 25, 2020

MauveKoala47

🌈 IMAGINATION 🌈

Oct 25, 2020

None

342

Its actually a normal thing But its not good and will affect ur learning time And I guess u day dream cuz u have a lack of connection with ppl and specially boys That's why u have this ideal type of boyfriend in ur head Well u should try to have a relationship(if possible) and if its not possible spend time with ur friends(if u have any ) and talk alot with them enjoy ur self cuz when u r with them u will forget all thoughts and problems in ur head and it will decrease ur day dreams

Oct 25, 2020

Anonymous

I think ur so wrong, 4 how long do u think u will be afraid of being broken hearted..... Nah.. dont be afraid that much Buena suerte!!!

Oct 25, 2020

BronzeOtter42

sint ametish nw koy it depends

Oct 25, 2020

QuietPuma79

አርፈሽ ትምህርትሽን ተማሪ ጨምላቃ ምን አስቸኮለሽ ስታድጊ በወግ በማዕረግ ትዳሪያለሽ

Oct 25, 2020

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