Am i really toxic if every guy who tells me they like me, i friendzone and they stay around for years and suddenly leave and don’t even want to talk to me because it will “fuck up their lives” or “its not healthy for them”? I’m using direct quotes from people here. I honestly do nothing evil to them.
Oct 24, 2020Trust me. My girl friends outnumber by boyfriends. Every boy has a feeling. There is no such a thing as best friends between a girl and a boy. You can check out researches on internet. But that feeling is or may not be real, it is due to our inherent animalistic (being governed by our feelings and emotions) than rational behaviors. I always try to repress that whenever I am around them. I always have respect as they have the same thing towards me. We have been living and hanging out like this for about 15 years. I have now a girl friend out side the squad. Yeah, it is all about knowing once self, our psychology and asking why? And solving that.
Oct 25, 2020Imagine waiting for someone u like to notice u then they tell u ur like a sister, but u think he'll come to me eventually and stay waiting forever. Not healthy is right.
Oct 25, 2020same here
Oct 25, 2020I did something like this so I know . Yes you are toxic ... trust me I know since I'm a guy ...You just keep them around you to feel wanted and so you wouldn't feel lonely.. they stay friends with you after you turn them down because they still have feelings for you and hopefully one day hasbeshin kekeyershi belew .. its worst than rejection careful what you are doing . Watch out for your karma
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Oct 25, 2020Its complicated actually cause been there, doing that its obvious you want them around cause they give you this care and love that is greater than urs and u know u can count on them bt u also know how painful its for them yet you keep choosing urself when all they do is choose you, ur attached to them so them leaving hurts you bt again u just want them around to feel special and loved. That's not good for your personality and the person ur bt I can't say if what ur doing is wrong or right bt I will say this don't lose a person who could be the love of your life cause u were too stupid or arrogant to see it and analize what this means to your personality and make some changes
Oct 27, 2020Nahhh you're okay, they're just living in their dreams creating their own problems
Oct 25, 2020