if your too clingy/needy or pull people close to u without a week or month getting to know eachother in deeper level, most people will try to create distance or boundaires if u overwhelm them. if thats not the case, ur 22....get to know ur self first, be a person of a habit and spend time alone doing basic things. how social dynamics work is: with female u have to play pull and push and with guys u have to play mirror.