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Hey there. I am a dude and I just wanted to ask women here about a certain topic. Do you think that masculinity is a set of defined characterstics every man should have and if a man doesn't have these masculine characteristics, do you lose respect for him? I am asking this because for some reason, some women disrespect me for not being what they perceive to be a 'masculine' man. I guess this is because I am a very calm guy who doesn't like conflict and drama. There have been times that the women I mentioned before have said "Be a man" to me as if I weren't one. I am not gonna change who I am but getting your feedback would really help me understand this stuff. Thanks!

May 08, 2026

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Polvara

3219.5

In my definition, a real man is the one who has a Gut to say NO, when he sees something he doesnt agree with, and the will to say YES when he see somthing he agrees with, Other than that everybody is different. A single mom, could say a real man is who love my child as his own A gold digger girl could say a real man is a man who pay for my every shits.. So girls mostly define masculinity based on thir desire. But if the comments are repititive, comes from many people you should check urself

May 09, 2026

GoatOnTheLoose

23.5OP

Thanks for your answer. I will keep that in mind

May 09, 2026

Addlies

187

bro I mean who do u want to be a man for urself or someone else bro being a man is a quality of survival adel ende wegen!

May 08, 2026

GoatOnTheLoose

23.5OP

Thanks! I will remember that

May 09, 2026

Him0123

4820

Dude don't stress urself by asking this type of question they don't know what a masculine man is they will tell u upon what they fantasize bout a man or what they see from movies or r told or what their father is without knowing what their father is 100% just by telling u his good n bright side they judge what a masculine man is so don't stress urself just leave it n live ur life u r on a good road just be a peaceful chill rega yale guy one day u will find someone who loves u for who u truly r

May 08, 2026(edited)

GoatOnTheLoose

23.5OP

Thanks bro. The right girl will love me for me, like you said. I will keep that in mind

May 09, 2026

Dlk

6.5

hey bro take care of ur self and be ur self I mean when womans want to manipulate u or control u its the way they force u to do they want u to interact in every little drama be ur self care less u will find alot man

May 08, 2026

GoatOnTheLoose

23.5OP

I didn't think of it that way. You are right. Telling me "To be a man" is kinda a manipulation tactic. Thanks bro

May 09, 2026

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